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Just returned from the ENT

So Emmett failed his hearing tests and pretty much heard nothing on his left side when they were testing him.  Before the doc even looked in his ears, she said that based on his hearing test alone, she'd recommend tubes. 

I cried.  I mean, I know it's because there's fluid in his ears but when a doctor tells you "Your kid failed the test and has mild hearing loss" I just lost it.  

His surgery is scheduled for Monday morning at 7:30 so please send the Charmin our way.  

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  • Good luck on the surgery. I am sorry he failed the test.

    But as a speech pathologist, I can tell you that taking care of this early is so great and that it's just a conductive loss due to the fluid and once the tubes are in there is not going to be an issue since the fluid will be gone.

  • I would be upset, too.  But things are going to turn around for him.  Vibez to Emmett on Monday.
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    Good luck on the surgery. I am sorry he failed the test.

    But as a speech pathologist, I can tell you that taking care of this early is so great and that it's just a conductive loss due to the fluid and once the tubes are in there is not going to be an issue since the fluid will be gone.

    Thank you.  I was hoping you'd be a voice of reason for me and I was actually going to message you.  She said his left ear is filled with the thicker fluid (he had another ear infection last week)  and his right has some fluid but not as much.  I am hoping that the loss is temporary (and due to the fluid) and that it'll get better once the tubes are in place.

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  • I saw this on FB but I'll say again, good luck to Emmett and I promise that a couple weeks from now, you will be SO GLAD that you had this catalyst to tell you definitively that it was the right choice and you will see worlds of difference in him. 
  • Vibez to both of you.  I don't know a single parent who wasn't thrilled with the results of tubes.  They seem to work wonders.
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  • TP for Emmett! 
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  • Charmin sent. 

    I know how scary it is to get news like that, but it's early.  Vibezzzz to a speedy recovery for the little guy!

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  • Conductive losses due to fluid are temporary and very very common.

    When you are looking at speech production, it can certainly have an affect if it is a recurring issue over time, but there are a  lot of strategies for remediation if necessary. Helping him hear by having the tubes placed is absolutely the best thing he can do.

    And Dagger passed his test, but his ears were clear at that time. it is really just the luck of the draw on whether or not the fluid is in there at the time of the test.

    And he has no problems or delays with speech, although, he has definitely had a huge huge huge language burst after getting tubes. I do think some of it is just that he is at that age, but I suspect you are going to see a lot more speech development for Emmett now.

  • Charmin!
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  • Sorry you and Emmett are going through a tough time now, but you're on top of taking care of it and it will get better.
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  • It's tough to hear news like that about your baby.  I'm sure he'll come through like a champ.
  • Charmin to you both.  I'm sorry the test results weren't so great, but I'm sure the tubes will do wonders for him.  Good luck on monday.
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  • Thanks everyone, it really means a lot and I appreciate the validation that I wasn't a crazy mom for crying.  I mean, I held it together with the doc but got in the car and lost it. 

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  • I did the same thing (cry)!  Kate had constant ear infections and failed her hearing test in both ears.  Tubes have been wonderful and her hearing is now perfect.  This is a routine surgery and everything will be just fine.  You will be so glad you had it done!
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  • No, it okay.  Don't be cry.  Family cloth for your little guy!
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  • Poor baby! Good luck on Monday.
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  • Hugs to you, mama! You're being strong in all the right places, it's ok to let it sink in and turn here for comfort! He's going to be fine because you're doing the best thing for him. Lots of love and extra soft TP for little E!
  • Good luck to Emmett!  DD had this done 1.5 years ago and it was (1) the most I've cried in public since elem. school and (2) the best thing we've ever done for her. 

    It's such a quick procedure, he'll be out in no time and back in your arms.  :) 

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