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FU to Silent Treatment

I told DH about my post yesterday and said that I really need to work on not shutting down if my feelings are hurt and/or if I am upset for some reason.  He agreed that I need to express how I feel to him more often.  We had a nice little chat and cuddled it out.

I hope I can break that habit someday.

Re: FU to Silent Treatment

  • So cute! I'm glad you were able to sit down and talk about things with him. I hope you (and all of us who do the same thing) start to do better about that!
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  • That's good, it's a start at least!
  • I think it's great you were able to talk things out. 
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  • Maybe it is just so rare that I get upset that I honestly didn't know what to do. 

    In past relationships it was so common that I would just explode, get it out and we wouldn't talk for days.

    It felt good to feel better and understand each other more.

     

  • :) That's good that H was understanding. Its always easier when your partner is on board for helping make your life a little better for you! I hope you can over come this habit (I know with the help of H I've over come my shyness and my lack of self esteem so I KNOW your H can help you!)
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  • I'm so glad you were able to communicate your feelings to him, and that he was receptive rather than defensive.  That is great.

    Your feelings matter, Ang!  Express them!  :)

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  • Huge first step to even tell him about the post - good for you!

    I know it's not an easy thing to be open and feel vulnerable. 

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