9 to 5
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

Giving 2 weeks notice yay or nay?

Ok, as some of you know, I loath my job. I get called stupid and get blamed for things that are out of my control. I also think they are setting me up to get fired.

Here's the deal, I discussed this with my Husband, and I want to get into the dog care business and eventually into child care. According to care.com I would be getting paid close to what I get paid now, plus I would deal with what I love, animals and babies lol! I'm currently writing up by bio and my experience, but before I submit anything I need advice.

If I submit my bio and get people who want me to to take care of their animals and what not, I would have to say that I could start in 2 weeks, but these people may need someone right now. Do I give my 2 weeks at my current job now, or do I wait until I get someone who needs my services? Like I said, if I told a potential client that I can't start until 2 weeks, then I may lose the client. What would you do?

If it helps, I live in NYC, so there's always a market for care givers.

Re: Giving 2 weeks notice yay or nay?

  • I'm always leery of not giving two weeks, but that's because in my profession, I will almost always run into these people again.  I won't tell you not to give two weeks, but I will say that if you plan on making a complete career change, I wouldn't as concerned about my bridge burning.  Just be aware that you may end up working for/with these people again.  If that sits okay with you, then I'd begin right away. 

     

    Visit The Nest!
  • I wouldn't count your chickens before they've hatched. In this economy, I don't think it's wise to quit your job, if you need income, before lining up something else.

    Also, generally speaking, as a parent and pet owner - I am not leaving any kind of arranged care to the last minute. So 2 weeks wouldn't be a deal breaker, most likely.

    imageimage
  • NYC or not, it will probably take a little bit of time to land a caregiver job (I'm a nanny so I'm speaking from experience).  I don't think you will lose any opportunities over 2 weeks, so I would go ahead and give 2 weeks notice.
  • I would not quit your job. I know several highly qualified nannies who are looking. I would guess that most nannies go about 4-6 months between gigs (which last about 2 years). It is slow market due to the slow economy. Yes there are jobs out there, but there are many nannies looking for work. When I posted my job 2 years ago I received well over 100 applicants over 3 days.

    I think is fine to assume that most nanny positions will be interviewing with more than 2 weeks notice. Sure there are some families that will need someone ASAP but that isn't normal. However be aware that many families pay a premium for experience so you'll probably make on the low end of scale. I think you'll be making about $12-$13 and hour unless you'd be open to taking on 2 kids.

    Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker TickerBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • imageALE515:

    According to care.com I would be getting paid close to what I get paid now, plus I would deal with what I love, animals and babies lol!

    This kind of concerns me too.  Do you NEED your income?  I don't nkow that getting started in petcare/ child care is going to give you the income straight out of the box that you expect. 

    Just something to think about.

    "Beer is living proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy."
    ~Benjamin Franklin

    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers
    DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10

  • imagehocus:

    I think you'll be making about $12-$13 and hour unless you'd be open to taking on 2 kids.

    I suppose rates may be very different in NYC because it is a HCOL area, but nannies in my area (Northern New Jersey) make about minimum wage, sometimes less. 

  • imagekrminnj:
    imagehocus:

    I think you'll be making about $12-$13 and hour unless you'd be open to taking on 2 kids.

    I suppose rates may be very different in NYC because it is a HCOL area, but nannies in my area (Northern New Jersey) make about minimum wage, sometimes less. 

    I am surprised it is so low.  In the Twin Cities (MCOL) nannies make 15$ an hr, easy.  That is not necessarily with any experience either.   

  • imagehocus:

    I would not quit your job. I know several highly qualified nannies who are looking. I would guess that most nannies go about 4-6 months between gigs (which last about 2 years). It is slow market due to the slow economy. Yes there are jobs out there, but there are many nannies looking for work. When I posted my job 2 years ago I received well over 100 applicants over 3 days.

    I think is fine to assume that most nanny positions will be interviewing with more than 2 weeks notice. Sure there are some families that will need someone ASAP but that isn't normal. However be aware that many families pay a premium for experience so you'll probably make on the low end of scale. I think you'll be making about $12-$13 and hour unless you'd be open to taking on 2 kids.

    That's how much I get paid now. As long as 2 weeks not being a deal breaker, than I should be fine. 

  • imagesuzymarie:
    imagekrminnj:
    imagehocus:

    I think you'll be making about $12-$13 and hour unless you'd be open to taking on 2 kids.

    I suppose rates may be very different in NYC because it is a HCOL area, but nannies in my area (Northern New Jersey) make about minimum wage, sometimes less. 

    I am surprised it is so low.  In the Twin Cities (MCOL) nannies make 15$ an hr, easy.  That is not necessarily with any experience either.   

    According to a family friend that is in Upstate NY, she says they pay a lot for babysitting. She said I should go that route. But she also said that telling people to wait for 2 weeks is no big deal. I'm feeling better, I just want to get things in order.

  • imagesuzymarie:
    imagekrminnj:
    imagehocus:

    I think you'll be making about $12-$13 and hour unless you'd be open to taking on 2 kids.

    I suppose rates may be very different in NYC because it is a HCOL area, but nannies in my area (Northern New Jersey) make about minimum wage, sometimes less. 

    I am surprised it is so low.  In the Twin Cities (MCOL) nannies make 15$ an hr, easy.  That is not necessarily with any experience either.   

    Well, it's always possible that me and and some others are being swindled ;-)

    I probably shouldn't have spoken for the whole of Northern NJ; the specific neighborhood I am working in is relatively low-income.

    I have seen rates closer to $12-$15, but that is usually for nannies with a lot of experience.

  • Think of it this way. Do you really want to work for a family that isn't going to be respectful enough of you and your time to give you two weeks to quit your current job?
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • imageMadamePresident:
    Think of it this way. Do you really want to work for a family that isn't going to be respectful enough of you and your time to give you two weeks to quit your current job?

     That's definitely a good point!

  • When you give your two weeks notice is up to you.  However with the economy being what it is, it would probably be smart to at least give a two weeks notice, just in case this new career change doesn't work out for you and you have to go back to this career path you would have a possible reference.  This company sounds like crap so I can't guarantee that you would get a good reference, but at least you gave them your two weeks, and can leave with good karma on your side.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • imageALE515:

    According to care.com I would be getting paid close to what I get paid now, plus I would deal with what I love, animals and babies lol! I'm currently writing up by bio and my experience, but before I submit anything I need advice.

    Here's my thing. According to multiple different websites in an average COL area I should be making between $10,000 and $20,000 more than I do now and I live in a HCOL area. So theoretically you MIGHT make the same or more than what you are now that is in no way guaranteed or long term. Someone might get fired from their job and no longer need your services, might find a more convenient pet/child care provider, might not pay you, etc. 

    You would also lose whatever benefits you might have now, and have to handle the taxes on your personal business that you are now running. 

    If you hate your job, thats fine.  Find another suitable job that has some kind of stability in it, even if it is a part time job. 

    Now if your salary is purely extra money and nothing is dependent on you working, then do whatever makes you the happiest. 

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Always, always, ALWAYS give two weeks notice. It's called "not burning your bridges". You never know when that boss will pop in to your professional life, even if you have a completely different career.
    Lilypie Countdown to Adoption tickers
  • imageOtterama:
    Always, always, ALWAYS give two weeks notice. It's called "not burning your bridges". You never know when that boss will pop in to your professional life, even if you have a completely different career.

    Agreed.

    And even if it's a completely different career change, you may be putting your current employer on your resume. And if a new employer contacts them, your current employer would just say you up-and-left. Not cool.

    I'm currently a nanny and found my job on Care.com. The mom was still on maternity leave and if I was working a current job (which I wasn't at the time, I had just finished a seasonal position), I would have time to give a 2-week notice.

    Plus, like PPs said, you may not get a job asap. I would not give 2-weeks until you officially have a start date. 

    And... fwiw, I would not refer to them as your "client". Maybe that's just me, though. 

    image
  • imageMilsey32:

    And... fwiw, I would not refer to them as your "client". Maybe that's just me, though. 

     Ah, I missed that.  Yes, they are your employer, not your client. 

  • I would definitely wait and when you have a few jobs lined up I would give your two weeks notice.  I think it's always nice to give at least a week notice so that you leave on good terms; no matter how much you may dislike your job
    image
Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards