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Is this normal?

I met a guy 3 weeks ago at a party. We have been on 3 dates. All 3 times he has asked me out. We had a great time and even spent the night at each other's place. We talk a lot when we are together and have a lot in common. I know that he wants to take things slow which is fine with me. 

Weird thing is that we dont talk outside of our dates. No Texts, no Emails, no phone calls. Other than Emails from him asking me on our next date I get nothing.

Is this normal? 

Thanks! 

Re: Is this normal?

  • Seems like he's just not that into you. If you're looking for a relationship, I wouldn't put too much thought or effort into this guy.
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  • I think he is not that much in love with you.. Take your time to know your relation.
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  • Not to be a Debbie Downer, but he could be married.
  • Do you text/email/ call him?  If so, does he not respond?  Or are you always waiting for him to make the first move?
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  • I don't know, I could go either way. FI and I never talked on the phone much or texted during our first few months of dating. We just aren't phone talkers though or texters. We would give each other a quick call to make plans. We also lived at the same apartment complex, so we would see each other often in the gym and make plans in person.

    You've seen him once a week for three weeks, with a sleep over and he only emails you to schedule dates?

  • imageDaringMiss:
    Not to be a Debbie Downer, but he could be married.

    I don't know if it's necessarily this but something is off. It does seem strange that you guys aren't talking at all between dates. Like PP asked, are you reaching out to him and he's just not responding?

  • I would think it's weird if you've tried to text/email/call in between and he doesn't respond.  But if you're not making the effort either, he could very well be wondering what's up with you.
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  • imageturtle1120:
    I would think it's weird if you've tried to text/email/call in between and he doesn't respond.  But if you're not making the effort either, he could very well be wondering what's up with you.

    Agreed.  I'd call or text him.  If he is still mum then something is amiss.

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  • I haven't tried texting or calling him myself either. He said he wants to take things slow so im afraid me reaching out to him will put him on the edge. I'm so confused.

    I like him but this no communication thing is making me lose interest.


  • There was a sleepover, but he wants to take things slow?  Shenanigans!
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