West Coast Florida Nesties
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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What happened to the "i want a baby now but DH wants to wait 4 years" post?
Re: was there a dd?
DX: 6/9/2011: Azoo ICSI/IVF only option for biological child
IVF #1: ER - 9/26 * ET - 10/1 * beta#1 10/13 - 140 * beta#2 10/17 - 477 * beta#3 10/20 - 1101
1st u/s at 6w6d - one hb * 2nd u/s at 8w3d - no hb detected 11/10/11 * natural m/c 11/13/11
FET #1 Jan/Feb 2012 - 3 delays - cancelled 2/13
FET #1.2 - May/June 2012 - ET 6/6/* beta#1 6/15 - 95 * beta #2 6/19 - 322 * beta #3 6/22 - 940
7/6 1st u/s @ 7 weeks - one beautiful hb - released from RE
EDD 2/22/2013
PAIF/SAIF/PGAL welcome
Ah yes, because that's always works out so well for everyone involved. Don't people discuss these things before they get married?
Ah yes everyone is very perceptive. I guess I deleted it for all the reasons above. Glad to spice up the board a little.
Exactly. Wasn't there a celebrity couple that just separated because one of them wanted kids and the other didn't? I don't understand how you don't have that conversation prior to walking down the aisle.
o boy.. well lets see I asked if anyone had been on separate pages from their SO on timing in term of discussion of getting pregnant. I never said I wanted to force him into becoming a father at this minute because I wanted a kid. WHAT I said was that he wants to wait 4 years and I would be more ready in 2.. we have had this conversation and he knows about my discussion on the knot/nest and finds it amusing. So yes he knows I post and that I would like to start a family earlier than he does.
And yes we have had this discussion many times before walking down the aisle. But again Thank you for the comments. I should have kept it up for the clarification everyone seems to want.
I deleted the original post because it was obvious people thought I was trying to connive my husband into getting pregnant.. so instead of leaving it up for a bunch of strangers to just bash what I asked I took it down.