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I'm in a bind. Help!

I made plans with my parents to go bowling tonight with them, my brother, his gf, and my H.

I get on FB this morning and see a friend's baby shower is today and not next week! I already RSVP'ed yes to it and completely forgot!

What do I do? I can't bail on my brother because he's been looking forward to this for weeks. I feel terrible. My status is saying that I don't feel so hot (which I still don't) and the host of the shower commented asking if I was still going to make it.

Is it completely tacky to say no because I'm sick?  FWIW, I'm not super close to the girl. We used to work together. Help!

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Re: I'm in a bind. Help!

  • Go bowling and send a gift later.
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  • imageOtterama:
    Go bowling and send a gift later.

    What she said. It's what I'd do. 

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  • imageHallowsEve7:

    imageOtterama:
    Go bowling and send a gift later.

    What she said. It's what I'd do. 

    It's also what Jesus would do.

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  • imageOtterama:
    imageHallowsEve7:

    imageOtterama:
    Go bowling and send a gift later.

    What she said. It's what I'd do. 

    It's also what Jesus would do.

    If I knew how to do the thumbs up, it would go here. Smile 

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  • imageHallowsEve7:
    imageOtterama:
    imageHallowsEve7:

    imageOtterama:
    Go bowling and send a gift later.

    What she said. It's what I'd do. 

    It's also what Jesus would do.

    If I knew how to do the thumbs up, it would go here. Smile 

    Yes 

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  • Is the shower in the afternoon or evening? Is there any away to do both?  I would say that you can play up the not feeling well...but you do run the risk of running into someone (say the guys of the other women at the shower) who could potentially rat you out and blow your cover.
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  • imageOtterama:
    Go bowling and send a gift later.

    Yup, that's what I would do. 

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  • Decision made! I'll just send my regrets and drop off a gift this week. Thanks ladies!
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  • imageMegamuff:
    Decision made! I'll just send my regrets and drop off a gift this week. Thanks ladies!

    Yes  Have fun bowling with your family!

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