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Can't Orgasm

Okay so I'm 22 and I've been having sex since I was 16 and I still haven't had a orgasm I have tons of toys I have all different kinds of lubes that increase pleasure but nothings working for me...me and my boyfriend have tried oral sex *** rings different positions foreplay and nothings working and i'm thinking it might be because im on anti-depressants and mood pills...i just dont know

Re: Can't Orgasm

  • Then you don't know what turns you on. 

    I suggest masturbation; start immediately. It goes without saying you should be able to masturbate, get comfortable with your body and know what touches turn you on.

    There's a book called Sex for One by Betty Dobson; you might want to check it out.

    Once you find out what makes you orgasm, show him.:) GL.

    You might also want to speak to your doc about changing your meds; I don't know if an inhibited orgasm might be a side effect; not likely -- you stated you've never had an orgasm.

    Again, masurbate.

    Take your time and go slowly.

  • imageEbster911:
    i'm thinking it might be because im on anti-depressants and mood pills
    Yes, you're right. It might very well be because of that. Inability to orgasm is just one of many sexual side effects that are extremely common with antidepressant use. The bad news is that it could be permanent.
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