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Does your husband/significant other...

....like to play with your breasts a lot during sex? Is it weird that he sucks on mine? Sorry if this is WAAAAYYY TMI.......:/
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Re: Does your husband/significant other...

  • Of course, I have huge fun bags!
  • Okay, but does he use his mouth? My nips are getting to the point where they're drying out and itching pretty bad...Sorry, I just am wondering what to do about it...is there a special cream or something to make the "chafing" go away? 
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  • MUD. You can't be this stupid. At least I hope you're not, since it appears you have a kid.
  • My tits usually have a few hickeys on them, the day after we boink.  I don't have an issue with chafing though.  My suggestion would be to go ask for a nipple cream recommendation from the Bumpies.
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  • imagePuppiesAndRainbows:
    MUD. You can't be this stupid. At least I hope you're not, since it appears you have a kid.

    No I do not have a kid. I got that pic from google.  

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  • Well lanolin is cream to put on your nips when they get chapped from breast feeding. So I imagine that would work great for your problem as well. Are you enjoying how rough he's being? If your not enjoying it, then tell him to knock it off.
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  • imagesierramcole:
    Well lanolin is cream to put on your nips when they get chapped from breast feeding. So I imagine that would work great for your problem as well. Are you enjoying how rough he's being? If your not enjoying it, then tell him to knock it off.

    Yeah I do. And I don't think it's the roughness...I think it's his slobber haha. But yeah, he respects me if I tell him to stop. Thanks for your recommendation.  

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  • This is MUD, or your an idiot. I can actually orgasm from my dh sucking on my tits, no chafing. You probably have very small tits and maybe are a lesbian.
  • Maybe your VERY new to sex, or kidding. But anyway

    Yes I love it when he plays with the twins, and I also have O'd from his playing with them.

  • imagebinzy2524:
    This is MUD, or your an idiot. I can actually orgasm from my dh sucking on my tits, no chafing. You probably have very small tits and maybe are a lesbian.

     

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  • I think I would be more worried if my husband wasn't interested in my bewbs!!
    i wish i could be joking but my dad is the music teacher at a church so he owuld be mad. we had sex, all the time how bad i know but we dont want to wait and he said GREAT OH KAY! and I was really feeling the wets? down there- too embarsed to say- but he acted like man.
  • imagegisa886:
    I think I would be more worried if my husband wasn't interested in my bewbs!!

     Agreed!

  • imageChristyML:
    ....like to play with your breasts a lot during sex? Is it weird that he sucks on mine? Sorry if this is WAAAAYYY TMI.......:/

    I wish he would do it more! I wanna be able to experience an O from it like the others. Don't you wish that.

    You may have to see if there is something in his diet you may be allergic to. 

  • Of course. And I'd be miffed if he didn't.
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  • Of course!  I love it!  If you don't like it then speak up.  If you are chafing, then tell him you need a few days of boob play to heal up a bit. 
  • He does and I really enjoy it but sometimes if I'm not turned on enough it kind of hurts and makes my tongue feel weird (?). But yeah he be eating something you're allergic to.
  • imagebinzy2524:
    This is MUD, or your an idiot. I can actually orgasm from my dh sucking on my tits, no chafing. You probably have very small tits and maybe are a lesbian.

     I have not been on the nest long but this seems like an awful answer.

    Are you seriously using breast size as an insult. How old are you? Plenty of men enjoy small ones. :)

     As well, lesbian? What do you even mean by suggesting that?

    I find the OP odd but this is offensive.

    EDIT I found the OP to be an odd question for an adult married woman but who I am to say what she should know already.

  • My husband likes to play with my breasts a lot ALL the time. I am constantly having to slap his hands away.  So yes, he definitely plays with/sucks on them during sex.  I actually find it quite pleasureable. I don't think it's weird at all, just a natural male fixation with your breasts. 

     Now, once you start lactating (as I see that you are pregnant - congrats, by the way!), then I might see it as a little weird.  Although, I've heard some guys don't care, so I guess it's to each his own.  I don't mind my husband's obsession with my breasts at all, but when we start having babies and I am lactating, I don't think he (and definitely not I) would like it so much. 

    So happy to be married to my best friend.
  • I'm surprised no one has asked/mentioned this but, is the chafing a new development? It may have nothing to do with your man's slobber and everything to do with how your nipples are changing with your pregnancy. Ask your obgyn.
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  • Lanolin.

    Also-- your breasts are probably more sensitive during pregnancy. You might want to take a break from nipple play because if done forcibly enough towards the end of pregnancy can get labor started. 

    Also, if you plan to breast feed you will want your boobs to yourself for a little while before you start that. 

    Good luck. 

    PS- Binzy is a known troll that just says inflammatory shyt. She/He/It is always bragging on its supposed sex life. Ignore her. 

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  • I didn't used to think that it was weird but after I began lactating he was way more into it. The strange thing is he likes to sing that song "dancin' in the rain" when the milk sprays him in the eye. I continue to let him do it but TBH, it's a bit of a mood killer when he breaks out into song when he's motor-boating me.
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  • imagecrystalbaby:
    I didn't used to think that it was weird but after I began lactating he was way more into it. The strange thing is he likes to sing that song "dancin' in the rain" when the milk sprays him in the eye. I continue to let him do it but TBH, it's a bit of a mood killer when he breaks out into song when he's motor-boating me.

    Thank god! I thought DH was the only one that did that. But he likes to sing umbrella..

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  • imagemariawhyhop:

    imagecrystalbaby:
    I didn't used to think that it was weird but after I began lactating he was way more into it. The strange thing is he likes to sing that song "dancin' in the rain" when the milk sprays him in the eye. I continue to let him do it but TBH, it's a bit of a mood killer when he breaks out into song when he's motor-boating me.

    Thank god! I thought DH was the only one that did that. But he likes to sing umbrella..

    I'm trying to figure out the logistics of singing while motor boating.  How can you tell what song it is?  I would think it would be all muffled, kind of like when you're giving him a hummer.

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  • imageLiz4444:
    imagemariawhyhop:

    imagecrystalbaby:
    I didn't used to think that it was weird but after I began lactating he was way more into it. The strange thing is he likes to sing that song "dancin' in the rain" when the milk sprays him in the eye. I continue to let him do it but TBH, it's a bit of a mood killer when he breaks out into song when he's motor-boating me.

    Thank god! I thought DH was the only one that did that. But he likes to sing umbrella..

    I'm trying to figure out the logistics of singing while motor boating.  How can you tell what song it is?  I would think it would be all muffled, kind of like when you're giving him a hummer.

    Maybe it's an acquired skill. Like beat boxing.  

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    imageLiz4444:
    imagemariawhyhop:

    imagecrystalbaby:
    I didn't used to think that it was weird but after I began lactating he was way more into it. The strange thing is he likes to sing that song "dancin' in the rain" when the milk sprays him in the eye. I continue to let him do it but TBH, it's a bit of a mood killer when he breaks out into song when he's motor-boating me.

    Thank god! I thought DH was the only one that did that. But he likes to sing umbrella..

    I'm trying to figure out the logistics of singing while motor boating.  How can you tell what song it is?  I would think it would be all muffled, kind of like when you're giving him a hummer.

    Maybe it's an acquired skill. Like beat boxing.  

    More like ventriliquism.

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  • imageLiz4444:

    More like ventriliquism.

    Wrong. Ventriloquism is where you do not move your lips and sound comes out. MH is moving his mouth a ton and sound is coming out. All the words to "singing in the rain" aren't perfectly clear, but I can tell that's what song it is because they play it in the produce dept. when the sprinklers are about ready to spray the vegetables.  

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  • imagecrystalbaby:
    imageLiz4444:

    More like ventriliquism.

    Wrong. Ventriloquism is where you do not move your lips and sound comes out. MH is moving his mouth a ton and sound is coming out. All the words to "singing in the rain" aren't perfectly clear, but I can tell that's what song it is because they play it in the produce dept. when the sprinklers are about ready to spray the vegetables.  

    Sorry, I should have known...

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  • This was a fun post.

    Also OP didn't say she didn't like it she was just asking about the chafing.

    Lots of guys like the suckling type sucking on breasts, sounds like fun.

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