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WWYD kind of long sorry!

So I was a SH mom for a few years.  My husband was laid off in 2010 worked a few months and was laid off again this past Aug.  I ended up having to get a part time job because we were really struggling.  In late Nov I got hired at a library 20 hours a week.  Now my husband is going back to work and I am torn over what to do.  I love  my job but the hours are not great 1-5 so now the kids will have to go to after school care and I have no idea what I am going to do over the summer.  I feel it isn't even worth it though I do like my job and it would look so bad to quit after like 3 months!  Plus my husband could get laid off again in 6 months for all I know.  How can I make this work!Confused

Re: WWYD kind of long sorry!

  • Given the apparent instability in your husband's field, along with the fact that you like the job, I would hang on to it.  Even if you have to spend everything you make over the summer to send your kids to summer camps, it would be worth it to me to give me peace of mind that we have my income to fall back on if something happened to DH's job.
  • That's exactly what my plan was the problem is I have three kids I don't even make 250 a week and where I am camps and other such activities for vacations cost 200 per week per kid.  I was hoping to just find someone I know to watch them and pay them but I can't find anyone.
  • Keep looking for summer care. You have some time.

    Can you adjust your hours?

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  • I would keep it for now and see if you can make some changes in your hours.
  • I would ask if you could switch hours before doing anything.  Maybe work less days instead or switch shifts with a co-worker?

    If not, I would still keep the job since you enjoying it so much and it brings you extra income. Also, it give you structure and a place to go to where you're not mom (I don't know how important that is to you).

  • Thanks everyone I think I am just going to take a breath and see how everything goes.  I will give it a go and try to make it work the best I can.  If it doesn't work it doesn't and I will go from there.
  • You have lots of time before you have to figure out summer - keep looking! It seems like you would really like the stability of continuing to work even if your H is working.

     I like the idea of seeing if you can adjust your hours - maybe you can work more like 15 hrs/week to fix your child care issues? 

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  • Maybe you can find a good responsible highschooler or college kid to watch your kids during the day. 1-5 seems like a good schedule for someone younger. They can sleep in late and get off early enough to hang out with their friends.

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  • for 4 hours a day you can find a college or high school student to watch the kids.

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