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f/u to sunglasses

i bought some at target last night. jennlin- be proud.

i will probably buy myself nicer ones some day but jenn made me feel super guilty like i'm not allowed to buy anything for myself so there you have it.

 

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Re: f/u to sunglasses

  • AW, I'm sorry she made you feel super guilty! She's just being true good friend and trying to help you on your goals. :)

    AND...maybe they weren't the super-expensive ones you were coveting, but you still DID get yourself something new! Perhaps that can be one of your rewards for hitting your weight goal? (Besides just the awesome reward of how amazing you've done so far and are continuing to do and how much better its making you look and feel).

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  • Yay! Gold star!

    I'm proud of you. 

  • Yay! I knew you wanted them bad.
  • lol. even though we are paying our bills off, i do plan on buying myself things from time to time.. like new clothes here in a few months!
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  • Do you happen to wishlist? Like at your fav clothing stores online? I have multiple wishlists at all my fav stores, and most of the time if you check back a few months after you have added it, it'll be on sale. Happens all the time for me with Nordstroms. Something that was over $100 that I didn't feel like spending that much at the time will suddenly be 50 or less. Just a thought!
  • imagesarack:
    lol. even though we are paying our bills off, i do plan on buying myself things from time to time.. like new clothes here in a few months!

    Yeah, but you need those. That's different. 

    This is really random, but you might want to check pawn shops to see if you can find a good deal on sunglasses there. 

    When our house got broken into I had 6 pairs of Chanels and a pair of Dior glasses stolen and the cop told me to check the pawn shops in the area to see if they'd turn up. Of course they didn't, but someone could sell something like that for a quick buck. 

    FWIW, my insurance gave me the green light to replace all of my sunglasses and I still haven't done it. I went to Target and bought a pair of sunglasses to get me through the spring. 

  • I think I want to spend the money and buy a pair of Ray Ban wayfarers. I have been wearing various fake ones for 2 years. I think I will bite the bullet by the summer...
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  • imagesarack:
    lol. even though we are paying our bills off, i do plan on buying myself things from time to time.. like new clothes here in a few months!

    let me know if you ever want a shopping buddy. seriously.  

  • imageemyinpink:

    imagesarack:
    lol. even though we are paying our bills off, i do plan on buying myself things from time to time.. like new clothes here in a few months!

    let me know if you ever want a shopping buddy. seriously.  

    omg.. fashion overload= you and uw. i would DIE! with excitement of course. :)
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  • TBH, if you wanted nice sunglasses and you had the gift card, there was no real reason to feel guilty if you got nicer ones. You are totally allowed to get yourself nice things every once in a while - you're human!

    But the fact that you talked for so long about paying down debt, and got yourself a second job to bring in more money is a huge statement that you are really trying to get yourself financially stable. So I can understand why Jenn said what she did - she was just trying to remind you of what you'd talked about!

    But good on choosing cheaper sunglasses - I'm sure there'll be a time soon where you'll feel better about getting yourself something super nice. :)

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  • imagepicksthemusic:

    TBH, if you wanted nice sunglasses and you had the gift card, there was no real reason to feel guilty if you got nicer ones. You are totally allowed to get yourself nice things every once in a while - you're human!

    But the fact that you talked for so long about paying down debt, and got yourself a second job to bring in more money is a huge statement that you are really trying to get yourself financially stable. So I can understand why Jenn said what she did - she was just trying to remind you of what you'd talked about!

    But good on choosing cheaper sunglasses - I'm sure there'll be a time soon where you'll feel better about getting yourself something super nice. :)

    i agree witht he bolded part.

    the reason i got a second job though wasn't really for the debt paying.. it was to travel this year. :) but i guess they go hand in hand.  we have a lot of traveling to do and i really don't want to put it on a cc that i've already paid off. i will, so i get rewards, but i'd like to be able to pay it off right away too. :) and our debt is getting little and it's exciting!

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  • picks has good points---*but* was it a nordstrom gift card or a visa gift card? if it was a nordstrom gift card, i would've supported you buying sunglasses (i would've preferred you buy them from the rack, but if you had enough to cover the full price of the sunglasses, then yay for you).

    if it was a visa gc, then you can use it for groceries, and other things you "need".

    sara--i'm not being mean--i just want you to stay on track for your goals!

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  • and p.s. i don't feel guilty about making you feel guilty Devil. because you can also use that nordstrom gc (if it *is* a NGC), to buy the clothes you *need* in a few months.
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    who says you can only wear your wedding dress once?

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  • imagejennlin:
    and p.s. i don't feel guilty about making you feel guilty Devil. because you can also use that nordstrom gc (if it *is* a NGC), to buy the clothes you *need* in a few months.
    you should feel bad. because you're a jerk. just joking, i know you're trying to help. i think when i started to talk about our debt, i just wasn't very organized which caused me to overreact.. now that I am, it is going to be ok and it really isn't that big of a deal. The biggest thing that scared me recently was adding all those extra travel plans! But the extra job will really help pay debt down and bring income in for baby savings and travel savings. :)
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