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MM type question.

forgive the PWness, I'm bored as crapp and don't feel like working.

I'm thinking about going into forebarance on both of my SLs for at least 6 months.  We just can't get ahead on our CC debt right now with the vet bills and outrageous SLs. Forberance on my SLs would give us nearly $750 extra a month to pay off the remaining vet bills and put towards CC debt.  If we could do this for 6 months, that would pretty much polish off our CC debt.

SLs would still be acruing interest, but when you're talking about 20+ years of repayment, I'm not really sure its going to matter that much.

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Re: MM type question.

  • I say go for it. I put my federal SL's in forbearance when I first started this job (before I started getting decent commission checks) and it helped so much. And really, the interest that accrued didn't make THAT much of a difference in the long run.

    When you think about the amount of interest you're avoiding by paying off your CC's v. the amount of interest that would would accrue on your SL's while in forbearance, really, it's a good option to help you get ahead.

  • I would say do it. I had my loans in forbearance for over a year, the 6 months you get right after graduation and the economic hardship forbearance as well). It really did not accrue all that much interest while in forbearance and in the grand scheme of things a few thousand extra dollars on top of the $150K I already owed was not going to be that big of a deal.

    If it will help you get out from under some of your other debt just do it, that's what they're there for.

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  • I would do it as well. I am thankful mine were under 40k to start, however, its still a pain to pay them off. I am regretting not putting them under a more manageable situation prior to baby, but hindsight is 20/20. if it wasnt for us needing the cash,my yearly bonus and Mark's would be paying a HUGE chunk of them so we had more cashola in our hands.

     

  • The only reason I would advise you not to is if will be applying for credit in the near future. Will you need a small business loan for Whipped? Trade in a car? I had my loans in deferment when we bought our house. I remember the lender saying deferment was fine, but they looked negatively at forebarance. In that case, see if you can reduce your payments but still be in payment mode. I thought for forebarance, you needed a decrease in income? Wouldn't hurt to ask.
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  • imagemelpfaff:
    The only reason I would advise you not to is if will be applying for credit in the near future. Will you need a small business loan for Whipped? Trade in a car? I had my loans in deferment when we bought our house. I remember the lender saying deferment was fine, but they looked negatively at forebarance. In that case, see if you can reduce your payments but still be in payment mode. I thought for forebarance, you needed a decrease in income? Wouldn't hurt to ask.

    Hmm, Mary and I were just talking about this, I didn't think forbearance effected your credit, only defaults.  IWe both have pretty stellar credit, I do NOT want to do anything to effect that. 

    I don't have any options for reducing payments, we don't qualify for anything income-based.  I know they have economic hardship forbearances, which don't have to be based on a decrease in income, just financial hardship (such as not being able to afford your payments). 

    I'm definitely going to call and talk to them (you pretty much have to in order to get forbearance) and see what they say. I just think it will be easier to do now, before I get my raise with the new job. 

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  • I would do it. I'd rather the interest go on the SLs than the CCs.
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  • imagelneuner09:

    imagemelpfaff:
    The only reason I would advise you not to is if will be applying for credit in the near future. Will you need a small business loan for Whipped? Trade in a car? I had my loans in deferment when we bought our house. I remember the lender saying deferment was fine, but they looked negatively at forebarance. In that case, see if you can reduce your payments but still be in payment mode. I thought for forebarance, you needed a decrease in income? Wouldn't hurt to ask.

    Hmm, Mary and I were just talking about this, I didn't think forbearance effected your credit, only defaults.  IWe both have pretty stellar credit, I do NOT want to do anything to effect that. 

    I don't have any options for reducing payments, we don't qualify for anything income-based.  I know they have economic hardship forbearances, which don't have to be based on a decrease in income, just financial hardship (such as not being able to afford your payments). 

    I'm definitely going to call and talk to them (you pretty much have to in order to get forbearance) and see what they say. I just think it will be easier to do now, before I get my raise with the new job. 

    Neither my deference nor my forbearance affected my credit score at all and I monitored that thing like a mofo while I was unemployed and still do.

    ETA: most student loans give you a certain amount "given" deference time. I don't know if you've already made use of it (like right after you graduated and looked for a job or whatever) but you can use that deference time for any reason. Forbearance needs a reason, including economic hardship.

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  • I only used the 6 month grace period after graduating.  And that was actually before I consolidated. 

    And I plan on using economic hardship.  If they'll let me.  Which, if I can't afford my bills, I'd call that economic hardship.

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  • From my understanding, forebarance won't impact your actual score. However, the lender can see it when they see the full report and sometimes it looks bad. That is what a loan officer told me. Anyone you can ask who underwrites loans?
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  • I had to forebear my loans before I got my job and it just showed them as "current" on my credit report.  I saw my full report that a lender would see when we bought our car in July and it said nothing about that (it was done approx 14 months afterward).
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  • I just talked to my stepmom who does underwriting and she said that as long as you aren't in forbearance for an extended period of time (over 18months is what she said) and then go back into repayment with no issues that they don't worry about it.
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  • Okay, I was just suggesting she look into it.  In that case, I hope you get the the forbearance.  Those payments seem insane!
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  • I just registered for the MTEL, the test I need to pass to be a school SW or Adj. Counselor!

    ETA: This was supposed to go under Tues randoms.

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