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travel, extended family & $$$

Is it OK to set a budget / cap when offering to pay for another person's airfare?

Re: travel, extended family & $$$

  • Can you just book the flight yourself so you don't have to worry about what they spend?
  • or, say something like i will put $$ towards your flight. and make sure that amount is one you are comfortable with.
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  • imagescrgl:
    Can you just book the flight yourself so you don't have to worry about what they spend?

    I try not to do this so the credit card it's booked under matches the name on the ticket. It's not a requirement but it can makes things tougher if there's a problem if they don't.

    For the OP, I think it's fine to say you're willing to contribute X toward the ticket.

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  • imagedalm0m:

    Is it OK to set a budget / cap when offering to pay for another person's airfare?

    Will you be my relative????  Big Smile

    I think I would do as other's said and just say "I'm willing to spend up to this amount"

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  • I set aside a certain amount to pay for 2 people to fly here.  The flights times within my budget aren't convenient for them & they are whining that they want other times that are more convenient for them. It's a difference of about 4 hours & will require one of them to take a day off from work. The flights they want are 3x the price of what I have offered them.  They are welcome to book them but I'm sending them more than the amount I budgeted. 

    I guess I'm just annoyed b/c I'm trying to do a nice thing here & they are making me feel bad.  How stupid is that?

  • i would stick to "i will contribute ___" and if they choose to spend more for a few hours difference, that is their choice.
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  • imageKiller Cupcake:

    Greedy!

    You need to just tell them "I have x amount to put toward this. You are more than welcome to book the other flights, but you will be paying the difference."

    And then never offer to do it again. lol 

    This. If those times do not work for them then they can either pay themselves or they can not come.  DO NOT feel bad, you are doing the nice thing and they are taking advantage.  If needed tell them you do not have the money and cannot do it.
    Jen - Mom to two December 12 babies Nathaniel 12/12/06 and Addison 12/12/08
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