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Reason # 5412398567 not to have kids

http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/63184270.aspx

I can't say that I really feel sorry for her because she did choose this lifestyle, but man!  Not having sleep must really suck monkeyballz.

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  • Yeah, I remember the days of being sleep deprived because I was working 30 hours a week and going to school full time.  It was tough then, even in my early 20's, and I couldn't imagine going through that now.  No thank you! 

     

    Definitely a good reason.  Sleep is wonderful!!

     

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  • Yikes. That sounds like it sucks.
  • We get a solid 8.5-9 hours a night and every second of it is needed.  I would probably be on some major drugs if I didn't get that much sleep.
  • I can't imagine. I'm exhausted everyday now and I don't have any kids to take care of. I would be a sobbing mess if I was her.
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    I can't imagine. I'm exhausted everyday now and I don't have any kids to take care of. I would be a sobbing mess if I was her.

    On another note, how is your back feeling?

  • This has been my night's for the last week, since my H had surgery. We haven't gotten more than two consecutive hours of sleep at all this week. I can't imagine it continuing for 6 months. Sad
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    This has been my night's for the last week, since my H had surgery. We haven't gotten more than two consecutive hours of sleep at all this week. I can't imagine it continuing for 6 months. Sad

    :(  How is he doing?

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    This has been my night's for the last week, since my H had surgery. We haven't gotten more than two consecutive hours of sleep at all this week. I can't imagine it continuing for 6 months. Sad

    Just know it gets better! My dad is up and moving 2 1/2 weeks after his surgery. He took a while longer the first time, but just know in a month or so (or when his Dr told him to do PT) he will be a lot better. I'm just glad they can fix him :) 

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  • It must be her first kid. Yeah you don't sleep after you have kids get use to it. my kids are 2 1/2 & 3 almost 4 and no I don't sleep that's just the way it works being a mom. Be friends with coffee and nap when they do.

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    imageLizO11:
    This has been my night's for the last week, since my H had surgery. We haven't gotten more than two consecutive hours of sleep at all this week. I can't imagine it continuing for 6 months. Sad

    Just know it gets better! My dad is up and moving 2 1/2 weeks after his surgery. He took a while longer the first time, but just know in a month or so (or when his Dr told him to do PT) he will be a lot better. I'm just glad they can fix him :) 

    Yeah...he started PT yesterday, which was it's own brand of fun. I know he will be good as new, eventually, it is just a slow process, and I feel bad for him because I know he wants it fixed now.

    Ang--> he's getting there? Slowly but surely. The first couple of days (right after the nerve blocker wore off, mainly) were absolute torture. Now, he's up and moving some, and back in the bed (he was sleeping on the couch downstairs), that has helped immensely. One day at a time seems to be our standing mantra. He went back to work yesterday, and lasted until about 2:30 before needing to come home. He is back there today, and we will see how that goes. Thanks for asking! 

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  • I just love the "Reason # [never ending]"! FI and I started counting a couple of years ago, but lost track. Now we just say "yet another reason..."
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  • The thing that jumped out at me was her 700 sq. ft. house.  I have a one bedroom apartment and it's 945.  Surely that's a typo...

    On another note, this is in fact one of my many reasons to not have kids (yet).

    ETA:  It's also one of my reasons for not nursing if I do.  If she weren't breastfeeding, her DH could take some of those shifts.


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  • That's why I can't have kids, I would be a monster without my sleep. 
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    imageboofly1224:
    I can't imagine. I'm exhausted everyday now and I don't have any kids to take care of. I would be a sobbing mess if I was her.

    On another note, how is your back feeling?

    Lots better! Thanks for asking. The physical therapist sort of thinks I hurt my back because of this hip issue I've been dealing with so I've been stretching my hip out a lot and it's helping. 

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  • I'd just give it baby benadryl...Hence why I probably shouldn't have kids, lol
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    The thing that jumped out at me was her 700 sq. ft. house.  I have a one bedroom apartment and it's 945.  Surely that's a typo...

    On another note, this is in fact one of my many reasons to not have kids (yet).

    ETA:  It's also one of my reasons for not nursing if I do.  If she weren't breastfeeding, her DH could take some of those shifts.

    My second apartment was a 1 BR/1B and it was only 710 sq. ft... I also looked at a few houses last time I rented that weren't much bigger. So it may not be a typo, yikes! That place felt small for me and the boy, I can't imagine having a kid in there too!

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    imagesessionswedding:

    The thing that jumped out at me was her 700 sq. ft. house.  I have a one bedroom apartment and it's 945.  Surely that's a typo...

    On another note, this is in fact one of my many reasons to not have kids (yet).

    ETA:  It's also one of my reasons for not nursing if I do.  If she weren't breastfeeding, her DH could take some of those shifts.

    My second apartment was a 1 BR/1B and it was only 710 sq. ft... I also looked at a few houses last time I rented that weren't much bigger. So it may not be a typo, yikes! That place felt small for me and the boy, I can't imagine having a kid in there too!

    That's what I'm saying.  DH and I can't even fit a coffee table in the living room because the couch is too close to the TV stand as it is.  Where the heck would we put a baby?  Lol.


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