Trouble in Paradise
Damik
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
This whole BVal thing
Makes me wonder what ya'll think about me. Yes I am being neurotic like that. I know that I often come here with the dramaz, am I annoying? I really respect all of you ladies and I know if I was being viewed as BVal is I'd be really bummed out.
Thinking about all the times that ya'll have helped me, I just wonder/worry that I'm seen as a bother.
Re: This whole BVal thing
You don't bother me! I think of you as everyone's cheerleader. Your post in my last one really helped me feel better.
Another thing is the fact that you're actually trying to help yourself. She's not. She's sitting around fawning after some Annie chick, leeching off her husband, all the while whining about how she can't walk but, oh, that's not a big deal.
Everything Kuus just said.
Although I would never see you posting some passive aggressive diatribe via blog calling us out.
Currently Reading: Don Quixote by Miguel De Cervantes
I read her blog the day all that went down with her and I'm completely baffled by Annie. I actually wondered if she was an imaginary friend.
BFP #4 It's a BOY!
CP: July 2011
BFP #3: 11/3/2011 M/C 12/12/11
We miss you and love you always, little firecrackers!
I think what you struggle with is legit. I also think you're pretty self-aware about your mental health and take steps to improve it. I think you're also willing to acknowledge when you do slack off.
So, I think you and BVal are different animals.
You two are on different planets.
She is mired in (and almost seems pleased with) her circumstances.
You are awesome. I'm glad you're in counseling with your H.
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You seem to be really struggling, but proactive in your struggle. You aren't sitting there waiting for people to fawn over you or tell you how sorry they are for your situation.
It seems like you really want to solve your issues versus revel in the attention you get from them. Also, you are working towards a goal (teaching) and seem to be able to function (for the most part) in the real world.
I don't find you annoying, Damik. ((hugs))
The couples therapy sounds like a good step in the right direction. Are you feeling more positive these days? I really hope so.
Lurker posting . . .
Could someone PM the link to Bval's blog?
I had it bookmarked but our IT dept "update" my system - so kind very of them. Grr.
Thanks!