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HELP!!

Never posted here but thought why the heck not...

FI and I just dont seem to have the spark and "fun" we did in bed before the baby was born.  Things are always rushed or we are in a hurry...

I need some ideas on how to spice things back up?!?!

Extra points if it is something that can be done while baby naps!

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Re: HELP!!

  • Plan a date at home when baby naps on a weekend. Buy something sexy to wear, new candles and maybe massage oil. Turn off the baby monitor for just an hour and have fun. I also found planning a date night out where conversation did not include baby or finances, followed by a return home once baby was asleep allowed us to reconnect.
  • I had the very same problem and the #1 piece of advice I can give it this:

    Take care of yourself, for yourself! When you feel great about yourself, your husband will be the one wanting to put the spark back in your marriage!

    Put on makeup even when you feel too rushed. Take time to shave your legs and do all the grooming you did when you were dating.  I'm not saying you have to feel like a prom queen every day, but do the things that make you feel the sexiest!

    This will put a spring in your step and a smile on your face and nothing is sexier than that!

    Of course you can do all the stuff they say in the cosmo magazines, and much of that could help - but this is the one thing I've found that makes the biggest difference!

    Good luck, you'll get there! I know it's hard to think of all this stuff when you have a small child, but even little things make a HUGE difference. Props to you sexy mom for caring enough to even put this out there! 

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