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toy suggestions?
Small backstory: I think the last time I posted on here was a year or more ago, about how I've never had an orgasm. Well, I've still never had one. When I try with DH, it's always nice, but I get over stimulated pretty quickly and it just doesn't feel good after that. I have the opposite problem when I try by myself, where I try for a while but the sensations or whatever you want to call them never "ramp up" and everything just... peters out, I guess.
Obviously what we're doing isn't working out, and I've never tried using a toy. So. Suggestions?
(Also, if there are any adult toy websites you could suggest that send out the items in discrete packaging, that would be wonderful (we live in a duplex and sometimes mail get's delivered to the wrong household, and that would just be awkward).)
08/13: Started TTC - 07/14: PCOS dx
BFP 09/18/15 - Baby S 05/27/16
Re: toy suggestions?
If I remember correctly, a lot of people advised you to try toys back then?
Still good advice, IMO.
Most online toy stores ship in plain packages.
Soap.com sells toys and it will ship in a soap.com or diapers.com box.
http://www.soap.com/subcat=Instruments-of-Pleasure-5113/Type=Vibrators
I just checked out Early To Bed, and oh my god, that site is ridiculously fabulous and perfect. Thank you thank you thank you!
08/13: Started TTC - 07/14: PCOS dx
BFP 09/18/15 - Baby S 05/27/16
here's a good site that is confidential abd very good.
http://tinyurl.com/24zf8aw
also if you're in the New York area there is a clinical trial for women like you who are looking to better their sex lives . here's the link to that site as well
http://bit.ly/Ab4nlP
good luck
joyce@centerforfemalesexuality.com