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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Eek! Update on K
So K came over last night. We cooked dinner together (yummy spinach and mushroom manicotti), shared a bottle of wine (um.. K's first drink EVER apparently), then talkd for a bit and went to bed, where some of my other concerns were...um...assuaged. Twice. ;)This morning he made breakfast while I cleaned up what was left of the cooking mess from last night, and he asked me if I'd rec'd the package he sent. I hadn't, so I wandered over to the mgmt office and picked it up. It turned out to be a box of chocolate covered strawberries, and a bottle if champagne. The note read, "You are amazing and I love you."Um...I'm really really startled by this note, especially given our discussion last night about my concerns yada yada yada, but I didn't say anything to him because, well, I'm a wimp when it comes to confrontation, and I was rushing to feet ready to head to NYC (on the train there now).K and I have been talking for a little over a month now (we meet on match), but last night was only our fourth date (we can only see each other on weekend because of his schedule.An I crazy, or is a proclamation like that a little over the top given or relationship so far? Don't get me wrong, I like K and I'm enjoying spending time with him, but wow! That just seems really sudden.Thoughts?
"You don't get to be all puke-face about your kid shooting your undead baby daddy when all you had to do was KEEP HIM IN THE FLUCKING HOUSE, LORI!" - doctorwho
Re: Eek! Update on K
Yeah, that would totally freak me out too. I wonder if he's feeling Valentine's Day pressure or something? Either way, that's totally weird.
And this wine was his first drink EVER? How old is he? Did I miss something about him being a Mormon or something?
"You don't get to be all puke-face about your kid shooting your undead baby daddy when all you had to do was KEEP HIM IN THE FLUCKING HOUSE, LORI!" - doctorwho
My thoughts are that because he's been sort of "sheltered" by being LDS, maybe he's never experienced really liking someone like this before and just doesn't have the experience to know that this isn't quite what love is, or the right time for it?
In my experience, more naive and sheltered people tend to say that word a lot faster than those who have had experience with love and broken hearts.