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What in sam hell is pinching the tip?

Please? Help me out.
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Husbands should be like Kleenex: Soft, strong, and disposable.

Re: What in sam hell is pinching the tip?

  • Everyone is doing it.
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  • I hate you all.
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    Husbands should be like Kleenex: Soft, strong, and disposable.
  • imagesalimoo:
    Please? Help me out.

    HAHAHA. Who are you, me?

  • imageTSD:

    imagesalimoo:
    Please? Help me out.

    HAHAHA. Who are you, me?

    You know, as soon as I posted this I was like "TSD will take pity on me. She owes me."

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  • imagewingedbride:
    Ask your mom. 

    I know we use the your mom jokes here constantly, but for some reason this particular instance just tickled me a little extra.

  • I will take pity.

    Our marriage counselor has us doing these sensate activities. Massage, etc. Well...we went from back rubs to me giving a handie and pinching the tip when he's close to the big moment. AND THEN DOING IT AGAIN. This is supposed to help my marriage. !!@!@!@$@(#!*#@!$#&!#(8

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  • More importantly is it "what in the sam hell" or "what in the sam hill"?  I've been saying sam hill this entire time.  Obviously it never really made sense to me, but I also never really gave it much thought until just now in this moment
  • Thank you, Kristen.

    Hmmmm. I have heard that this feels awesome, but that if it's not done right, you can cause some pain. I would also die of embarrassment if my therapist suggested this.

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  • WheRe have you heard this? I must must must know. 
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    If I were a man (or fitty) I'd totally call my penis THE WIZARD - HappyTummy
  • imagesalimoo:

    Thank you, Kristen.

    Hmmmm. I have heard that this feels awesome, but that if it's not done right, you can cause some pain. I would also die of embarrassment if my therapist suggested this.

    I'm glad you said this, because all this time everyone has been ZOMG!!!! I was all "eh, what's the big deal?" 

  • imagemodb1rd:
    WheRe have you heard this? I must must must know. 

    I remember reading it in Cosmo or something way back when and J just confirmed that it's a thing.

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  • Did you ask the therapist why this was supposed to be helpful or were you too embarrassed?
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  • imageFallinAgain:
    Did you ask the therapist why this was supposed to be helpful or were you too embarrassed?

    We are going  to this week. We skipped over our usual "thinking, feeling, happening" lead in to the session where this would typically come up in order to get right to our family work that helps him understand us better. Plus I wanted to talk eth mike about it more before I brought it up to the counselor. 

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  • I admit I asked Arthur about this and he swears it would feel awful.
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  • imageKristenBtobe:

    imageFallinAgain:
    Did you ask the therapist why this was supposed to be helpful or were you too embarrassed?

    We are going  to this week. We skipped over our usual "thinking, feeling, happening" lead in to the session where this would typically come up in order to get right to our family work that helps him understand us better. Plus I wanted to talk eth mike about it more before I brought it up to the counselor. 

    I was just curious about why such a...specific instruction. 

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  • imageshanollee:
    More importantly is it "what in the sam hell" or "what in the sam hill"?  I've been saying sam hill this entire time.  Obviously it never really made sense to me, but I also never really gave it much thought until just now in this moment

    I'm pretty sure it's Sam Hill. But I also thought it was Up and Adam, so WTF do I know?

    Also, I told Lorne about it. He wanted to know if it's supposed to be the actual tip, like the head. He figured just under he head might prolong the sexing, but actual pinching of the head itself did not sound pleasurable. 

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  • imagenoisy_penguin:

    imageshanollee:
    More importantly is it "what in the sam hell" or "what in the sam hill"?  I've been saying sam hill this entire time.  Obviously it never really made sense to me, but I also never really gave it much thought until just now in this moment

    I'm pretty sure it's Sam Hill. But I also thought it was Up and Adam, so WTF do I know?

    Also, I told Lorne about it. He wanted to know if it's supposed to be the actual tip, like the head. He figured just under he head might prolong the sexing, but actual pinching of the head itself did not sound pleasurable. 

    Lorne is right. Just at the base of the head. But pinching the tip gets more laughs.  

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  • I'm so glad someone else asked this. I haven't been able to catch up much lately and I was debating whether it would be better to ask or try to find the answer myself.
    I'm pretty sure it's pronounced your mom's a moron and if you didn't have your name legally changed by the age of 22, so are you. Unless you're from another continent. -Groomz
  • Can we get a Paint diagram up in the house so we're all on the same page? There was a long discussion and some google searches last night, but we're still a little fuzzy on the details over here...
  • imageHezzerlah:
    Can we get a Paint diagram up in the house so we're all on the same page? There was a long discussion and some google searches last night, but we're still a little fuzzy on the details over here...

    Maybe Kristen can make a how to video.

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    Husbands should be like Kleenex: Soft, strong, and disposable.
  • Hmmm, I feel enlightened. Without doing any research assumed you were supposed to pinch the tip with your kegels.
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  • So the point of pinching it is to just prolong the sexin' activities?

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    "If you wanna win then you shoulda put a hat on it. Don't be mad when you see a knit cap won it. If you wanna win then you shoulda put a hat on it."- Fenton

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