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Does anyone else go up and down like this?
So I was on a high from my Jenny GG photo shoot. My hair is all done and my make-up and was feeling like hot stuff. Fast forward 30mins later when Dh get's home and makes no advances for you know what time even though I am coming on strong. I don't feel sexy anymore. And he lays down on the couch and is now asleep, after I've told him that I would really like to go out at least to eat. Sometimes he really frustrates me.
And to make matters worse I have the worst friends. We only hang out if I invite them over. I never get invited to things. And I'm not over exaggerating. I can not remember the last time I was invited to something. I have to call them and ask them if I can "crash" in order to do something outside of me inviting them over, which makes me feel like a total loser. Why does no one ever return the favor?
Sorry, I sound like a complete baby. But I'm just in a really bad mood now. Ugh.
Re: Does anyone else go up and down like this?
Aww, jeeze. I'd be really disappointed and sad about both of those things, too.
Wake his ass up and make him take you out? It's a lovely Friday evening!
Wrt friends... :-/ bler. Are they not making any plans of their own and sitting around, or are they making plans that just don't include you?
Aw, I'm sorry you're having a bad night!
I would definitely make DH take me out if I was feeling all done up and frisky like that! And I don't know what's up with bad friends lately. If you live close, I'd be up for getting together sometime!
Ugh, that's super crappy. Wake him up and make him take out you, lol.
And I think you need some new friends.
I hate up and down days. I have them too
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Turns out that DH was in a really good mood when I got home, but he thought I wasn't in a good mood so he dropped his mood down to match mine. I was trying not to act super happy because I didn't want to give away my secret day. So it was all my fault, silly me! But he did apologize for not wanting to go out.
And my friends, well, I should probably just get use to it. I mean I love them and we've been friends forever. Since DH and I got married everyone has kinda drifted off in to new groups. But everyone is coming over tomorrow night for karaoke! DH said I just need to be happy with what I have and not complain so much. He is right...but It's still frustrating.
Anyone else deal with big friendship issues/changes once you got married? I think our biggest problem is not having any couple friends. But all the couples we know have been married and a little clique for a while that's hard to break in to.
I can relate to all if that. I'm a roller coaster!
Glad you guys got on the same page.
My friend issues are more about them all having kids and me not. One is married but still in the partying clubbing stage. And my closest friends don't live very close. So all of that and everyone being busy means drifting apart and not spending as much time together.
oooo, how was your session?? i bet you're going to look SUPER hot in your pics!!!
i'm sorry that h wasn't making any advances! maybe he seriously doesn't notice? horrible and not an excuse but maybe he seriously is clueless.
i'm so sorry your friends are such jerks! you need to come to gtgs and hang out with us!
aww, that's sweet of him. are you surprising him with the book, or are you keeping it for yourself?
h and i had no friendship changes once we got married--if anything, all of our friendships got stronger (we finally moved out of our parents' house, so we were *able* to hang out more!). but things have definitely definitely changed since we got KTFU. we used to hang out in a pretty "singles-crowd"....no relationships, not ready to start families....and now that we're KTFU, our friends are all-couples who will want to start a family in the next 5 years or so. they are new-ish friends, but things just have to change sometime.
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