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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Parenting Classes - Will this look bad on me?
STBX's lawyer responded to an emergency support request from my lawyer (she denied it) and attached a certificate that my STBX completed his parenting classes required by the courts (both of us need to take the classes). It was like saying, "He's not going to provide support, but he's still a good dad, SEE!"
We are going to court on Feb. 28th, is it going to look bad that I haven't completed my parenting classes yet, and STBX has? I'm looking at classes right now to see when I can take them. I'd like to do it ASAP, and will take off work if I need to. I'm really worried this will look bad on me.
Re: Parenting Classes - Will this look bad on me?
"Don't marry a man unless you would be PROUD to have a son exactly like him." ~ Unknown
Yes, it will look bad. Here, the courses must be completed or the divorce will not be granted; you don't want to have anything delay this.
It depends. If you were both charged with this in the last month and he's completed it while you still have a a few sessions scheduled, it's not a big deal.
If it's been longer than a month, he's done and you are just now looking, it doesn't speak well of you as a co-parent willing to do what is required to raise your children collaboratively.