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I know my family is super neurotic, but I was speaking to my sister the other day, and she recommended I should get a start on my registry.
Say WHAT?!?
I had no idea I needed to think of this stuff so early. She wants to host a baby shower for me in April or early May (plenty of time before her due date).
So, regardless of whether I'm doing this too early, can we have a baby registry thread? I know the basics, but what other baby soothers do you feel you can't live without? Toys? Certain types of clothes or towels? Awesome stroller or car seat to recommend? Types of bedding?
This is kind of a post and run, but I appreciate any help I can get. TIA!!
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Re: Baby Registry
I'm trying to remember what I actually ended up using off my registry. Here's some things off the top of my head outside of the typical stuff:
-baby bathtub
-first aid stuff-- thermometer, nail clippers, nasal aspirator, and I also highly recommend this "Parents Survival Kit" http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3029064
-the FP seahorse, I buy one for EVERY new mom I know.
-twilight turtle is a must in our household
-thank God for waterproof mattress pad covers for the crib
-I would highly recommend an exersaucer
I don't have any stroller recs since I liked mine "just ok." I would probably not buy it again. It's clumsy and heavy and hard to manage, IMO.
we loved our door jumper and will pull it out sooner for the next kid - like this one http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3812910
bath tub, first aid items, towels, breastfeeding stuff if you plan to, diapers (CD or regular), swaddle blankets, blankets, toys, books, car seat, mattress, bassinett or pack n play,
I also second the baby bargains book
Also note that registering this early, some things may go out of stock as the seasons change and they no longer carry that pattern. So you will have to manage your registrey.
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(1) Car seats - you'll want to register for the infant seat you'll need right away and then the Convertible seat you'll move into sometime around 9-12 mos (depending on how big your kiddo gets).
For infant seats - people tend to try to get the highest weight capacity but I am so glad I was told not to worry about it and got the "normal" Graco one. I mean, once she was 20 lbs or so, even if a seat is rated for 35, you are NOT going to want to carry them around it it and they'll be so squished even if they fit the height/weight limits. Net-net - don't worry about getting one to carry a huge kid. You'll have moved them on to the convertible by then.
When getting the infant seat give some thought to your stroller. Are you going to do a travel system (car seat, stroller all together in a package deal). I don't like them, some people do. I tell new moms who ask me to get a snap n go frame of some sort. Lighter, easier to use, etc. What I got was a stroller where everything came off (Uppa Baby Vista) and I could just click the carseat into that frame - - so I had to know what car seat I was getting so I could get the adapter.
Moral of the story - go when you have lots of time and try out car seats and strollers and decide what you like. Ask lots of questions. Try doing the harnesses, try opening and closing it (while holding on to something
etc.
The rest of the stuff I registered for was extra sheets, baby towels, bathtub, exersaucer, activity mat, some early toy things, swaddle blankets (forget the square flannel ones - useless. I am a huge Aden and Anais fan. yes, they are spendy. yes, they are worth it). burp clothes, small bibs, bottles, etc etc. Just go section to section.
I agree re the Baby Bargains book. It was very helpful. Also - if you register way in advance of your shower, people may not be able to find the styles that you choose. The stores change out the clothes pretty quickly. For bigger stuff (strollers, carseats, Pack N Plays) - find out if the color you like is last year's style or this year's. If it is last year's or earlier, it may not be around anymore by the time of your shower.
These are the things that we definitely use every day:
I would not recommend the Avent Express bottle warmer. The buttons are really hard to push.
I haven't used our strollers enough to say that I really love them. I will say that the BabyJogger City Select regular seat is still too big for C at 5 months, but he is small (23.5 inches and 13 lbs). The lowest strap setting is around his ears instead of shoulders. Same with the Peg Perego high chair we originally picked out. We were, however, able to adjust our UppaBaby G Lite to make it fit him and so far I really like that stroller.
Here are my registries if you want to look for some ideas.
http://tinyurl.com/AlliapistorBBBregistry
http://tinyurl.com/AlliapistorBRUregistry
Claire Elizabeth 12/31/2011
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THIS! You can start one online before actually going into the store, more of a way to keep track of things you like, and can edit it later. I would start with the book and get some ideas of things you like.
No problem.
Hey, FOUND SOMETHING ELSE!!
http://www.lucieslist.com/
Click "subscribe now", confirm, and you'll get emailed a "cheat sheet" for registries. Yessss!