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Hubby and His Job Sitch
My husband (we're not married yet, we've just been together so long) hates his job.... I recently got a new job making twice as much every month that I used to. He doesn't make much. I tell him it's okay to quit, and look for another job. But he won't quit.. I don't know what to do or to tell him. It's frustrating because I know how he feels. He works for my dad and thats where I worked, and we're both trying so hard to get "out from underneath" my dad and his wrath and selfishness. Any advice on what to do or say to encourage him is much appreciated.
Re: Hubby and His Job Sitch
Don't pressure him. Let him figure this out for himself.
Just out of curiosity are you engaged?
Our little Irish rose came to us on March 5, 2010
Don't drink the water.
Disclaimer: I am not an MD. Please don't PM me with pregnancy-related questions. Ask your doctor.
We are engaged. We've been together for the past 4 years, with a 2 year old Daughter.
I was thinking about backing off since he's already so stressed out with it. But i just want him to be happy. and he's not.
In posts I've seen on this topic, pressuring him in any way tends to backfire.
Our little Irish rose came to us on March 5, 2010
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Disclaimer: I am not an MD. Please don't PM me with pregnancy-related questions. Ask your doctor.
Try to gently encourage your fiance to apply for jobs.
I have been trying to encourage my hubs to do so. I think I need to back off a little.
I fully agree. He seems very depressed. Lost his mother in 2009. Never mourned. He's got issues that I can't fix. Therapists are highly expensive though..
Thanks all for the advice.
I don't really care, but was wondering why you either don't marry him or call him a fiance or whatever. I was with my husband for about 7 years before we got married and I was proud to call him my boyfriend or partner during that time.
I would also suggest to your S/O that he look at classes that might be interesting to him if he isn't ready to leave his job. If nothing else, it might help him make friends with people who have similar interests.
Since you really don't care and all.... We haven't legally married for credit purposes. I don't call him anything other than my husband because I feel we are married and binded together as one (which, to me, is what marriage stands for). We also have a daughter together, and my morals are "no children out of wedlock". I'm wondering now, why I joined a board that lacked such classiness on being welcoming with open arms? I feel that I should be able to call him whatever I want, right? I'm proud to do so, also.
Now, go on and question why those were my morals if it happened anyway, blah blah blah. I came for advice, not to be nit-picked about why I do or don't call my soul-mate, my partner in life, my HUSBAND, this or that.
Be tasteful and leave the unneccessary comments and/or insinuations to yourself. I didn't ask for it nor will I silently accept it.
Thanks to those who were giving and unjudging. Eff off to those who weren't.
Deuces.
No one was critical of you and you were the person who brought this up. I've never heard of someone doing this and was interested in it, because why people do things is supper interesting, but didn't have a judgement about it and I'm sorry if what I wrote hurt your feelings. If I posted about something and then added "P.S I call my grandma my aunt" I wouldn't be surprised when people ask about it.
Watch out for the etiquette board on the theknot when you are wedding planning, those ladies are hardcore about this kind of thing.
No hurt feelings, the "I don't really care, BUT" part kinda ticked me off. If you don't care, why ask?
Why would you call your g-ma your aunt, when she could never possibly be that? However, a fiance', boyfriend, partner, can always possibly be a husband. Makes senes doesn't it? Yeah....
Anyway, why so hardcore? What's it matter? I thought this was an advice board. Not a "Training on what to call the guy you sleep with" board?
Bogus. I'll go elsewhere.
Thanks again ladies!
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