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Attraction poll
IHO V-Day 
Who's more attractive, you or your SO?
Would other people find your SO attractive?
Was your attraction to SO instant?
Would your SO get jealous if other guy's openly found you attractive? (Hit on you in front of him, etc?)
Re: Attraction poll
Who's more attractive, you or your SO? Dur- Me! LOL
Would other people find your SO attractive? Yup, he's a hottie with sweet eyes, dimples and broad shoulders.
Was your attraction to SO instant? As soon as he walked into the bar my eyes (and then my body) made a Bee-line to him.
Would your SO get jealous if other guy's openly found you attractive? (Hit on you in front of him, etc?) It depends. I have been hit on directly in front of him and as long as the guy gets th hint right away, Jay usually let's me fend for myself. If it's obvious the guy is not getting the hint (even after I point to MH) then Jay will tell him to keep walking.
And I try to make it a point to let him know when I cat called or hit on. Makes me feel pretty and reminds him he is a lucky man.
IHO V-Day
Who's more attractive, you or your SO? I think we are equal. I may have a slight edge because I am over 10 years younger, but he is aging very well if I do say so myself.
Would other people find your SO attractive? ahem, not to brag but I was awarded this...
Was your attraction to SO instant? yes, it was. He had a contagious smile that I couldn't pull away from... and strong arms, and a cute butt. He was hard to resist.
Would your SO get jealous if other guy's openly found you attractive? (Hit on you in front of him, etc?)
Nah, neither of us are the jealous type but it he would probably tease me about it, saying something like, "just don't go trading me in for Mr. Suave over there".
Who's more attractive, you or your SO? probably me, I have the advantage of 14 years his junior
Would other people find your SO attractive? I think so, he still gets mistaken for his late 20s even though he's 40
Was your attraction to SO instant? pretty much
Would your SO get jealous if other guy's openly found you attractive? (Hit on you in front of him, etc?) not at all, he is usually flattered that he has a hot wife
IHO V-Day
Happy Love Day!!!
Who's more attractive, you or your SO? I'm going to go with me
Would other people find your SO attractive? Yes
Was your attraction to SO instant? no
Would your SO get jealous if other guy's openly found you attractive? (Hit on you in front of him, etc?) no. It happens *shrug*
Who's more attractive, you or your SO? We're equally attractive... a perfect match!
Would other people find your SO attractive? Yes, they do!
Was your attraction to SO instant? Yes... those green eyes sucked me right in.
Would your SO get jealous if other guy's openly found you attractive? (Hit on you in front of him, etc?) Nah, that's happened before and it makes him proud.
Who's more attractive, you or your SO? me of course
Would other people find your SO attractive? - I hope so, but honestly, he's not one you look at and say, whoa, he's hot!
Was your attraction to SO instant? - Nope
Would your SO get jealous if other guy's openly found you attractive? (Hit on you in front of him, etc?) - he wouldn't like it, but he wouldn't say anything or get pissed off in public. He would probably tell me later that he didn't like it.
Who's more attractive, you or your SO? Before we started dating, we actually argued (playfully) about who is more attractive. We're still undecided. But I say he is. He says I am.
Would other people find your SO attractive? They do. He's tall(ish), dark, and handsome!
Was your attraction to SO instant? I felt he was off limits when I first met him. We are 7 years apart and that was a huge difference when I was 19! The attraction was undeniable though. Especially after we got to know eachother.
Would your SO get jealous if other guy's openly found you attractive? (Hit on you in front of him, etc?) Not at all! He says to himself, "yeap, she's my girl."
Who's more attractive, you or your SO?
*I think we are pretty even, actually.
Would other people find your SO attractive?
*Yes, definitely. He's got a great body and his smile is amazing.
Was your attraction to SO instant?
*Yes! Enough for me to give him my # when I was seeing someone else.
Would your SO get jealous if other guy's openly found you attractive? (Hit on you in front of him, etc?)
*Same as Jenny's response.
Who's more attractive, you or your SO? I think we are both on the same level for the most part. I may be biased but I'd say we are an attractive couple
Would other people find your SO attractive? Yes- he's a handsome man and then when people get to know his personality, they fall in love with him- he's the subject of many man crushes
Was your attraction to SO instant? Not.At. All. He wasn't my type. It took a good YEAR of dating before I was really physically that into him
Would your SO get jealous if other guy's openly found you attractive? (Hit on you in front of him, etc?) No, he's not jealous and is a pretty secure man. The only time he got upset was when an ex left a love note for me at OUR (MH and I) house.
Who's more attractive, you or your SO? IMO, he is.
Would other people find your SO attractive? I would like to think so, but the vast majority of our friends are either women in relationships, or dudes, so no one really comes right out and says it. He got hit on a lot when he worked retail, though.
Was your attraction to SO instant? Actually, no. But we were friends for a year and a half before we dated, and he was in a relationship, so I didn't really let myself think about it.
Would your SO get jealous if other guy's openly found you attractive? (Hit on you in front of him, etc?) Nope. He'd defend me if anyone got aggressive, but he's very secure in our relationship, and not at all jealous.
Who's more attractive, you or your SO? MH and I swear he just gets cuter as he gets older.
Would other people find your SO attractive? Probably...I don't know why they wouldn't.
Was your attraction to SO instant? Sort of. He was someone I never really paid attention to but then the first night we got together...I was into him big time.
Would your SO get jealous if other guy's openly found you attractive? (Hit on you in front of him, etc?) I don't think so. This has never happened to me but MH isn't the jealous type.
Who's more attractive, you or your SO? I think we're pretty even, but I look better in a dress
Would other people find your SO attractive? Yes
Was your attraction to SO instant? Yes
Would your SO get jealous if other guy's openly found you attractive? (Hit on you in front of him, etc?) No. He might think it's obnoxious, but I don't think he'd be jealous.
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...considering me and the ex are in a strange place, I'm going to use him to fill in the blanks because I want to take part in the poll! Lol.
Who's more attractive, you or your SO? I'm going to go with equal. He's a hottie, but I also think I'm fairly attractive so...
Would other people find your SO attractive? I've had girls hit on him in front of me, and other people tell me he was so I'm thinkin' yes.
Was your attraction to SO instant? Immediate.
Would your SO get jealous if other guy's openly found you attractive? (Hit on you in front of him, etc?) No way. If someone wouldn't leave me alone, he'd definitely step in, but otherwise we just laugh about it later and he'll say things like "Oooh, looks like that gangsta-gangsta had a thing for you, hot stuff."
Who's more attractive, you or your SO? Equal.
Would other people find your SO attractive? Yes. He's a cutie with blonde hair and big blue eyes. He also gets hit on a lot because of the uniform.
Was your attraction to SO instant? Sort of. We first met in HS which was a few years before we started dating. My friends and I thought he was cute but he was a little awkward and goofy at the time. Then in college he got hot. LOL
Would your SO get jealous if other guy's openly found you attractive? (Hit on you in front of him, etc?) No. He's not the jealous type and we trust each other, so as long as the guys weren't being disrespectful he'd just take it as a compliment!
Who's more attractive, you or your SO? I am
Would other people find your SO attractive? I have people tell me they think he is cute, sexy what have you...
Was your attraction to SO instant? I do not remember. I am going with no.
Would your SO get jealous if other guy's openly found you attractive? (Hit on you in front of him, etc?)
People have and he doesn't get jealous, but he will make sure the other person knows I am with him.
Who's more attractive, you or your SO? I'd say him, but he'd say me.
Would other people find your SO attractive? Yes, other people do.
Was your attraction to SO instant? Yes
Would your SO get jealous if other guy's openly found you attractive? (Hit on you in front of him, etc?) No, he's not really the jealous type. A disrespectful guy is another story though.