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IHO Valentine's Day: What do you love about yourself today?
I know today is a rough day for some of us, so let's focus on positive things.
What do you love about yourself today?
I love the fact that I am FINALLY financially stable and I can start building my savings account.
I love that I am in good health and I am able to be as physically active as I am right now.

They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.
Re: IHO Valentine's Day: What do you love about yourself today?
I think I've done a really good job of trying to stay busy and meet new people. I joined a kickball team, I don't know anyone else on the team, and it's SO far out of my comfort zone. I'm stupid proud of myself for it, lol.
I love that I am self sufficiant with my job, finance and etc.
I LOVE that I am a mom to ds
Despites days being hard, I know I have friends, family(even though they are long distance) co-workers, all who are really good people in my life.
I am enjoying wearing a sunny yellow top with a grey sweater today.
Oh! I got a small heart shape truffle box from a co-worker and donuts from my manager.
I finally passed college math with a B+ and done with it for good with the exception of Statistics.
I have a new dating prospect but it isn't anything that will happen right now but a few months down the road. For now we are just talking via internet.
I just got my tax refund and paid off all my debt that I ended up with over the last month or so with enough left over to keep a coushion in the bank account.
RP! Where have you been?? I've been missing you in a non-crazy stalker kind of way.
The thing I love most about myself is my ability to make the right/best decision for myself no matter how hard or difficult the consequence is for me. I am also great at taking care of myself and in good health!
What a great idea.
I love the fact that I am not only financially stable, credit improved and more "money savvy" than I used to be.
I love that I have gone back to school and will be getting my AA degree this semester.
I love that I am a resourceful and resilient woman prepared for anything and excited about my future.
I love that I'm finally realizing and giving myself credit for being a really strong woman.
I love that my DD is an extremely happy and secure little girl because I had the strength to end a toxic relationship with her dad.
I love that being sick for the past couple of days has made me lose about 5 lbs. Watch out men! I'm looking hot!
I love that Im fiercely loyal....
I love that Im thoughtful/kind. I know things Ive done tos how people I care have made them really happy.
I love that Im a mom...its all I ever really wanted to be in life.
I love that Im a good kisser lol....or so Im told.
I love how resilient I have become. I have bad days but generally I'm doing well.
I love that I started to stand up for myself and not take crap from people.
Great poll, RP!
I love that I am financially secure, own my own home and am successful in my career.
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
Stayed out of credit card debt
Turned my health around the past couple years
And of course my long, thick, muscular....arms. Hahahaha
I love that I am financially secure and aware.
I love that I can recognize toxic relationships (significant other, family and friends) and remove myself without trying to fix people.
I love that I am making efforts to learn and try new things like photography classes, swimming, vacations.
Fun post!
I love that I am pretty stable, financially, and have no credit card debt!
I love being a mom and watching my kids grow into amazing people and seeing a lot of me in them (it's a blessing and a curse!)
I love how strong I've become, both physically and mentally
I love that I'm trying new things and making small "bucket lists" of stuff I was always too scared to try and am now checking them off!
I'm gonna go with this! LOL
I love that my children are happy, healthy, decent human beings. I love that I have a good relationship with them.
I love that I found a new hair color and a straightener that makes my curly hair look less like the 80's.
I love that I'm actually believing it when people tell me how strong I am.
I love that my a$$ looks super hot since I've started running and that I have phenomenal b00bies, too. I love that I've turned lots of heads today in the dress I'm wearing for my "date" tonight with one of my best girlfriends!
I love that I know I'm strong enough to get through anything that life throws at me.
I love that I'm a kick-a$$ cook!
I love that I've got a lot of upper body strenghth (for a woman) and that I look like someone who it wouldn't be easy to mess with!
That's for the positivity.. its hard for me to muster up today for some reason..
anyway, I love that I am very easy to get along with and I make people laugh
I love that I ran a MARATHON this year already! I love that I have continued my running and have signed up for lots of races this year!
I love that I have a goal of 70.3 for this year! I am going to do it with RiverPestie! :-)
I love that I am working on my masters degree, something I didn't think I would ever do.
I love that I am independent!
I usually lurk, but I love this.
I love that I am a fiercly loyal friend who has the same type of friends on my side.
I love my daugther's face when she hears my voice, and how she looks for me.
I love that I didn't get upset today like I expected, and am so happy with my plans to cuddle on my couch with my girl.
I love that I am shoping for my new home, have no credit card debt and money in the bank.
I love the family I have, and how supportive they are.
I love that I am starting my new life. I love that I am doing it as a full version of myself, not the version I was willing to be for XH.
I love that I am a good friend, a good mom, a good coworker, and a good daughter.
I love that I am financially self sufficient
I love that I refuse to settle in a relationship and take the first person that comes along
I love that I own my own home
I love that I am persistent when I have a goal in mind
I love the strong, confident person that I have become