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f/u to flowers on vday

ok.. so i really want flowers for vday from h. i said that in the post.. anyway, i was using the bathroom and walk out and there is h, telling my coworkers that he doesn't buy them because i don't appreciate them and tell him how he spent too much money.

heart broken. i really want flowers..

he came to pick me up for a quick lunch. that was sweet.

anyway, on the way, i told him that flowers would have been perfect and he said that he doesn't want to buy me flowers from a grocery store and the only places that have nice flowers are the places that cost a lot.. he is nuts. but whatev. i get it, he wants to save money and i appreciate that. but his comment bummed me out!

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Re: f/u to flowers on vday

  • Safeway has really nice roses.  Maybe let him know that they will be much cheaper tomorrow, so that would be a really good idea to get them tomorrow and make his wife Big Smile.

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  • imagejennuinne:

    Safeway has really nice roses.  Maybe let him know that they will be much cheaper tomorrow, so that would be a really good idea to get them tomorrow and make his wife Big Smile.

    lol. i just wish i didn't have to tell him.i told himl ike 20x how the vday where he sent me flowers to work was the one that i felt most special. :( he just didn't get it. it is probably best because i don't want him to spend a TON on flowers.. but i wanted some from him.. :( i need to stop being a baby and get over it asap.
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  • I will say one thing.. I have told H before that if he doesn't want to buy them on V-Day I get it..but I still want them, if it's a week before or a week later whatever.

    I've worked in the flower industry and the amount that they jack up the prices for flowers at Valentines day is ridiculous. Rose often cost at least $10 more per dozen than they regularly do. etc.

    That all being said I think that these men in our lives don't understand that we don't care about them trying to save money all the time, sometimes it's about the little expressions such as flowers going a long way. Obviously huge differences in "love languages" is why they don't get it. 

    Now I wait to see if H comes home with some flowers or not tonight. 

     

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  • imagejennlin:
    a single stem does the trick---want me to tell him? Smile

    and a single stem costs a fortune.. he'd be better of getting a dozen.. he'll still save himself money if he buys a dozen Wink haha

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    imagejennlin:
    a single stem does the trick---want me to tell him? Smile

    and a single stem costs a fortune.. he'd be better of getting a dozen.. he'll still save himself money if he buys a dozen Wink haha

    a single stem from your neighbors yard is free. Zip it!

    haha j/k. there are no flowers this season----is that why it's so expensive to get flowers right now??!

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  • imagejennlin:
    imageJohlise:

    imagejennlin:
    a single stem does the trick---want me to tell him? Smile

    and a single stem costs a fortune.. he'd be better of getting a dozen.. he'll still save himself money if he buys a dozen Wink haha

    a single stem from your neighbors yard is free. Zip it!

    haha j/k. there are no flowers this season----is that why it's so expensive to get flowers right now??!

    All flowers this time of the year are raised in greenhouses for the most part. Cost of heating is higher etc. but it's also a sales gimmick because they know people will buy them no matter what the price. After all they need to have flowers for Valentines! 

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  • imageJohlise:

    I will say one thing.. I have told H before that if he doesn't want to buy them on V-Day I get it..but I still want them, if it's a week before or a week later whatever.

    The guy I dated before DH...his birthday is on Valentine's Day.  Therefore, he absolutely refused to ever get me anything on V-Day.  He said it was his special day, not mine.    So I always told him what Johlise said....we don't have to celebrate V-day on the 14th, but let's pick a random day that we'll celebrate and do something for each other.  Yeah......that never worked either.

    DH did get me flowers today, and he got them at Safeway.  They're really pretty!  There are a few roses in the bouquet, but there are also daisies and lilies. 

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  • imagejennlin:
    a single stem does the trick---want me to tell him? Smile
    hours ago would have been perfect. :) thankyou for offering. no flowers from the h. i'm hoping when peonies come into the stores or available he'll remember i want a bouquet of pink ones. :) ahhh, i'd die. i've never had my own.
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  • I'm sorry you didn't get flowers! =( I hope he gets you them soon... The build up of Vday is vicious... Just remember that he is trying to do what you wanted and save money!
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