Maine Nesties
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

Ok, I'm a smidge worried

I had my first real OB appointment yesterday. Everything looks ok, except the doctor couldn't find the heartbeat with the dopper. It's early, my uterus is tipped back, and I'm fat (the doctor didn't mention that last one but I know it doesn't help.)

My doctor said, "You look worried." I said, "Um, yeah!" I have my appointment with maternal fetal medicine next week and I don't want to go up to Portland if there is no reason to, KWIM? So my doctor ordered an ultrasound just to make sure there is still a viable pregnancy.

I go to check out and schedule the ultrasound and the only appointment available all week is on Friday. FRIDAY! I know four days isn't much in the grand scheme of things but it feels like an eternity.

Keep a good thought for me, will you? :)

image

Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

Re: Ok, I'm a smidge worried

  • Don't they get that you need to know NOW??? I'm so thankful my OB had an u/s right there and they weren't afraid to push back another appt to use it! I'm thinking lots of good baby thoughts for you!
  • Thinking good thoughts for you!  My last pregnancy at one of my early visits they couldn't hear the heartbeat (I also have a tipped back uterus), and all was fine. Hope the next 4 days go by fast!!!
    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • I agree with maeghan - I would want to know Now!! Lots of good thoughts for you!!
    imageBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker BabyFetus Ticker Here comes our Pumpkin!
  • They couldn't hear the HB at my 10wk appt either but luckily I was able to go right to u/s and be seen. I can't imagine waiting for an appt. There are several layers of fat between the outside of my belly and my uterus. I hope everything turns out ok! 
  • Thinking of you and sending LOTS of healthy baby vibes! Keep us posted!
  • imageBeyondTheSea16:
    Thinking of you and sending LOTS of healthy baby vibes! Keep us posted!

    This! Left Hug Right Hug

    "Once the realization is accepted that even between the closest human beings infinite distances continue, a wonderful living side by side can grow, if they succeed in loving the distance between them which makes it possible for each to see the other whole against the sky." -- Ranier Maria Rilke BabyFruit Ticker image Me:37 MH:38 TTC since Oct 2011 BFP/Beta#1: 13 6/20/12; Beta#2: 20 6/22/12; MC/Beta#3: 9 6/27/12 BFP#2/Beta#1: 9/21/12 S/PAIFW
  • That will be a hard wait!  I'll be thinking good 'wooosh wooosh' thoughts for you.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Sending good thoughts to you!!!
  • Sending lots of positive thoughts your way! I think the toughest part of pregnancy is the worrying. If I wake up at night, I lay awake until I feel a few good kicks, I can't rest easy otherwise. Hopefully Friday comes faster than you think it will.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Thinking lot of good thoughts for you. I hope the next few days fly by!! HUGS!

    image
  • Oh, no...sorry you're going through this!  The worrying is out of control - I didn't realize how much worrying there would be before the baby was even born.  You are in my thoughts for a healthy heartbeat on Friday (fingers crossed for an opening before then!).
    imagePregnancy Ticker
  • So sorry you have to wait that long, crazy! Sending lots of healthy baby vibes your way!
    Photobucket
    The aim of life is to live, and to live means to be aware; joyously, drunkenly, serenely, divinely aware. -Henry Miller
    http://cookthehumbletable.blogspot.com/
  • Thinking of you and sending good vibes!  I just don't understand why they wouldn't get you right in for u/s.  I, personally, would be on the phone (or not have left the office) without a u/s.  At 12 weeks they couldn't find h/b (cuz I'm a fatty, lol) so they got me right in and it was perfect.  hugs
    image
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Sending you lots of good thoughts!  Four days is a long time to wait when you're feeling anxious!  It sounds like there are some good reasons why a baby would be there and it would be hard to find a heartbeat, so I'll be hoping one of them is the explanation.
  • The ob couldn't find layla's heartbeat at 10wks either, freaked me out... esp after 2 miscarriages, but they were able to find it the following week. hang in there and try not to worry! (I know t's hard)  just stay positive!
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • That same thing happened with this pregnancy.  I had to wait a week and a day. They said they weren't worried b/c I had the u/s, but it was hard to not worry. But, all is well, our little girl is just a growing.  I'm sure it will be the same with you!
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Why do they do that to pregnant women?  I'm glad you get an ultrasound!  With DS the doctor said she'd try to look for a heartbeat at 13w, but that they don't usually find it until 16w.  She didn't find it at 13w and I had to wait until 16w.  I didn't even know any better.  I'll be at the Portland MFM office next week too! (If its the same place)
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers Lilypie Second Birthday tickers image Daisypath Anniversary tickers image
  • I can't believe they are making you wait. Sending lots of vibes. Friday will be here before you know it. 
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Thinking of strong, healthy heartbeats for your little one :-)
    Our Abby Jean

    image

    image

    BabyFruit Ticker

  • I didn't hear Eben on the doppler until 16 weeks.  I can't believe that they are making you wait, my mw pulled in the ultrasound cart right away.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Thinking of you and sending positive vibes your way. I hope Friday gets here fast!
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic Lilypie Third Birthday tickers Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • imagelauram730:
    Oh, no...sorry you're going through this!  The worrying is out of control - I didn't realize how much worrying there would be before the baby was even born.  You are in my thoughts for a healthy heartbeat on Friday (fingers crossed for an opening before then!).

    It doesn't stop once baby is here... welcome to the club.

  • Lots of good healthy heartbeaty baby thoughts coming your way!! I can't believe they are making you wait, that seems ridiculous.
  • I feel like sometimes doctors are so desensitized to the emotional rollercoaster that is pregnancy.  I'm sorry you have to wait so long; I'll be thinking of you.

    I had a similar experience with my doctor not being concerned and not soothing my freaked out reaction.  She had a student intern with her and was explaining everything in detail, so when I heard her tell the student that at 10 weeks and very little (not anymore!) fat in the way we should definitely hear the heartbeat.  Nope.  Then I had to wait 2 weeks for an ultrasound where I sighed the biggest sigh of relief ever.

  • Hopefully this will reassure you:

     The OB office could not hear Ian's heartbeat consistently until I was 16 weeks. Made for some stressful appointments, but it all worked out in the end. My uterus is also tipped way back, which was the reason I was given.

    Hope your u/s goes well.

  • Making you wait is cruel.

     

    Thinking good (as Megan called it) "whoosh whoosh" thoughts for you.  In my mind, I can hear it.  I feel like all is well. 

    image

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • That sucks that they couldn't fit you in until Friday - that's an eternity when you have such worries!!  I'm keeping you and the bean in my thoughts - one more day!
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers
    Jake blowing out the candle at Katie's coming home party :o)
    image
    Katie Belle
    image
    Kristen, Chad, Jake, Katie & Sadie the Wonderdog, est. 6/17/06
Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards