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Just wanted to thank you all for your prayers, support, vibes and well wishes. We lost baby Huckleberry this week.
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I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending vibes to you and your H for continued strength during this horrible time.
I don't have any words of wisdom, but H and I did go through a loss about 2yrs ago, so if you do want to talk, I'm happy to listen.. pm anytime.
So sorry.
I am so sorry for your loss. T&P your way. I really don't know what else to say other than we are here for you. ((hugs))
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Welcome to the world Finley Michael - born 2/13/2010
Baby Sister is coming soon!
Thank you all so much. I go from completely fine to a scream sobbing mess. Thursday after everything I was just numb. I kept wanting to tell myself that my period was just 10 weeks late and all the blood was a revenge flow.. that I hadn't actually gotten pregnant so everything was fine. The tests were wrong! It's Aunt Flo! But, I know better. Yesterday I pretended like nothing had happened the day before. (Thurs was the d&c? I think that's it's called?) and went out to meet some family for lunch. They all knew, but I insisted I was fine. Last night it started to hit me, so I self medicated. Today I'm just a wreck. I woke up sobbing in an empty bed, and it just followed me through the day. My mom and great aunt came over with lunch and kept me company for a while, so I'm doing better at the moment.
My spirits are definitely low, but I just try to keep positive. The situation could have always been worse. Just so much $hit always hits at once, ya know?
i am so sorry. i got worried when you said you felt something wasn't right....that's exactly how i felt in july for the brief time that i was pregnant. it sucks. it's such an emotional thing to go through and honestly, i'm still dealing with side effects from it. i wish these things didn't happen to people...it's just not fair.
i hope your friends and family are here for you at a time like this. i know it's hard to talik about, so you always have us. PM me if you need to talk.