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Fashion question: Nude pantyhose

This comes up more on ML, but after our OOTD adventures together, I feel I relate more to you guys.

Are nude (and I mean nude, not suntan, not even very visible) pantyhose really a huge faux pas? I rarely wear them, I prefer tights, but wtf are you supposed to wear with, say, a skirt suit? Tights, especially opaque ones, feel too casual. 

 

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Re: Fashion question: Nude pantyhose

  • I've worn them when I've had important work meetings or presentations, when I felt that another color wouldn't work or tights were too casual.  I think they're preferable to bare legs in a professional setting.  But I've worn a suit to work twice in the last year, so I'm probably the wrong person to ask.
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  • I don't know why they are a fashion don't especially when like you say they are a true nude.  I stopped wearing them a few years ago when I learned of the horrible fashion choice I was making, but they do not offend me.
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  • I would never wear a skirt suit without them.  Sometimes in the warmer months I'll go bare-legged in a more casual skirt.  But generally if there's a chance I'll be meeting with the higher-ups, I want to have them on. 

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  • I wear them when appropriate. The really sheer kind. I also have a pair with a backseam.
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  • my company's dress code calls for no bare legs, but that hasn't been enforced in years.
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  • Duchess Kate wears them so I suspect they will start coming back in a big way. I also agree that in some settings it is far more important to be professional than fashionable.
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  • I didn't even know it was a fashion crime until the last year or so when people were talking about it on ML so I've just kept on wearing them when appropriate, but since then anytime I put them on I get a moment of "Is everyone staring at my outdated legs?" Glad to hear I'm not completely out of touch.
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  • i am pro nude pantyhose in a skirt suit for damn sure.

    i'm with you, it was a big surprise to me when i came on the knot/nest scene and discovered the amount of scorn pantyhose got. bare legs seems very very overly casual in certain circumstances to me. and with my (how can i put this delicately) huskier legs, it honestly seems kind of gross. TMI?

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  • I hate going bare-legged.  I wear nude hose with dresses all the time.  I'm not really a fan of the black hose look that's fashionable right now, so I'd be sporting nude when others would be wearing black. 

    Also, my H has a total pantyhose fetish.

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  • I would not wear a skirt suit without hose.
  • imagekatie.i.do:

    i am pro nude pantyhose in a skirt suit for damn sure.

    i'm with you, it was a big surprise to me when i came on the knot/nest scene and discovered the amount of scorn pantyhose got. bare legs seems very very overly casual in certain circumstances to me. and with my (how can i put this delicately) huskier legs, it honestly seems kind of gross. TMI?

    My legs are nice shape-wise, but they're so pasty pale and usually either bruised or mottled or chicken skinned so I feel like pantyhose helps to even them out, especially in the winter.

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  • I wouldn't wear them in a social setting, even to a dressier event (wedding, etc.) But with a skirt suit - hell yes.  There's really no other option. In general though, I choose pantsuits.  You may call me Hillary.
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    I wouldn't wear them in a social setting, even to a dressier event (wedding, etc.) But with a skirt suit - hell yes.  There's really no other option. In general though, I choose pantsuits.  You may call me Hillary.

    Okay, so then what would you wear with a cocktail dress in the middle of winter? I know pantyhose aren't like pants, but I can't see going completely bare-legged in January.

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  • I agree with everyone here. Nude hose are a must with a skirt suit. I love the backseam, KB. sexy and retro.
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  • I'm okay with them if I can't tell you have them on from standing a normal distance away.

    My friend (well ex friend actually) likes to wear nude hose with SANDALS.  And not the kind that have no toe seam - hers have the stupid toe seam.  In sandals.  And they are generally two shades too dark.  (This is not why we're not friends anymore though.)

    I don't like black hose that are not totally opaque.  That screams 80's to me.  Yuck.

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    I'm okay with them if I can't tell you have them on from standing a normal distance away.

    My friend (well ex friend actually) likes to wear nude hose with SANDALS.  And not the kind that have no toe seam - hers have the stupid toe seam.  In sandals.  And they are generally two shades too dark.  (This is not why we're not friends anymore though.)

    I don't like black hose that are not totally opaque.  That screams 80's to me.  Yuck.

    I have a coworker who wears hose (with the toe seam) with sandals, it's just awful.

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  • I have not worn full pantyhose or tights in a long time due to the heat in Houston. But I wear nude knee highs at times with pants and I am sure that is a faux pas.
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    imageboxerfan:
    I wouldn't wear them in a social setting, even to a dressier event (wedding, etc.) But with a skirt suit - hell yes.  There's really no other option. In general though, I choose pantsuits.  You may call me Hillary.

    Okay, so then what would you wear with a cocktail dress in the middle of winter? I know pantyhose aren't like pants, but I can't see going completely bare-legged in January.

    I would go bare-legged.  But January in Atlanta is very different than January in Boston.  When I lived in NY, pantyhose were still acceptable. 

     

    Side note: Pantyhose were a requirement at my first job out of college.  The dress code was insane.  It was 11 pages long (just the womens dress code - the men had a whole separate document), and bare legs and socks were both expressly forbidden.  

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  • I would say going bare legged when, ahem, you don't have the legs to pull it off is a FAR worse fashion offense than wearing a sheer nude (in the right color) pantyhose.

    And yes, in some social and work situations it just simply isn't appropriate to not wear something on your legs.

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  • I hate pantyhose. I wear them to interviews and that's it. If I worked in a more formal setting, I guess I'd suck it up, but bare legs are ok in business casual (but I don't think open tied shoes or going sleeveless are, for whatever reason). I've never felt pantyhose kept me any warmer than bare legs.
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  • I wear nude pantyhose with any work suit.

    I do think I'm going to look for the seamed variety though; that'd add a little spice.

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  • I wore pantyhose on Halloween since I was wearing shorts in cold weather. I kind of love them. Bare legs can be a little gross. Especially since I have this insanely huge scar on my leg.
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  • imageSue_sue:

    I wear nude pantyhose with any work suit.

    I do think I'm going to look for the seamed variety though; that'd add a little spice.

    Nordstrom Rack is where I found some. Hue makes them sometimes also. 

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  • I have black stockings with a seam, but they also have a cuban heel, which i hate. So unsexy. 
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