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Yesterday was me and my XH anniversary. It's the first one that's passed since we split up. I was aware that the date was approaching earlier in the week and I thought that I'd be able to handle it just fine, but I wasn't 100% sure. Yesterday I completely forgot about it. I filled out some paperwork that required me to fill out the date several times and I still didn't realize what day it was. The post below about the one-year anniversary of divorce reminded me.
I'd say that not remembering is a really good thing!
Re: I just realized!
That's great! I forgot my anniversary this year and it was also my first since the divorce. I remember sitting in book club and we were picking the next meeting and I looked at my calendar and was like oh, it's my anniversary, oh well.
It's definitely a good sign that it passed and you were unaffected. Onward and upward!
I think it is a great thing to not remember. I did not remember mine this year either.