Starting Over
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Online dating profile...already??
I have only been separated for about 6 weeks.
Just had a friend tell me that husband has an online dating profile on Plenty Of Fish.
Really?? Already??
Don't know WHAT to think- he told me that he is alllll about working on himself and making himself a better person for DD, but obviously not if he is already online looking for someone else!!
Re: Online dating profile...already??
He's probably just trying to "stop the bleeding" and get some physical comfort......I know, it sucks and it doesn't really feel like he's dignifying what you two had, but......tell yourself this "there is a reason why I'm not with him anymore...."
Hugs!
Hey, at least your H wasn't doing this while you were married (like mine, but on Craigslist---very klassy!)
All of this. He's taking an easy way around actually healing by trying to jump into another relationship rather than working on himself. Thing is, it has nothing to do with you. Please don't follow his lead. Take the time you need to heal so you can be in a healthy relationship down the road AND so your DD has a good example in her life. ((hugs))
Call me horrible, but I had one up about a week after DH & I finally split. Then again, I was checked out on the relationship for months and was just waiting out the holidays.
He is on the rebound and looking for some fun, I doubt he is looking for anything serious. But I do understand that it hurts.
You have the right to remain silent. Anything you say will be misquoted and used against you. My Blog
Change one week to 4 weeks, and this is pretty much me. I was checked out long beforehand too.
What he does is really none of your concern as long as he is not directly affecting your DD. You worrying about what he's doing is not going to help you in your process of moving forward. Like a PP suggested, I think you should ask your friends to refrain from giving you updates on what he's doing.