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Work to Live or Live to Work?

Following on from the post about long work hours... which ethos do you think you live by?

For us it is definitely work to live - work as a means to an end rather than being the reason to live... 

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Re: Work to Live or Live to Work?

  • I work to live. I have never been the type of person who had to have a career. I have had several jobs over the years, and I have been happy with all of them.
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  • I actually took a really interesting class on this during the senior year of my BA. The 4 categories in the main book we used (by Gilbert Meilaender) were:

    1. Work as co-creation (not just for artistic professions)

    2. Work as vocation

    3. Work as dignified but irksome

    4. Work as necessary for leisure

    I have a really hard time sticking to one category and find myself thinking of my work in all four categories at different times.

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  • I don't hate my job, but I'm not ambitious and wouldn't miss it if I didn't work for a while. Actually, neither DH or I are particularly ambitious but since we have to work, we've figured out a way to work at jobs we don't hate and then do lots of fun stuff outside of work. So I guess I'm somewhere between 3-4 of Kelly's list.
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  • I work to live for sure.  Possibly because I've never had a job that I've loved.  I've never gotten pleasure from a job like I do from my volunteer work.  Hmm, maybe I should be working for a NPO.
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  • I work to live. I need a job that feels meaningful though in order to thrive. I get a much more fulfilling time of being a nanny than I did as a receptionist or secretary because I feel like I am directly making a difference to someone's life. But then again, I can get that feeling in my general relationship with colleagues and clients.
  • "Live to work" sounds so horrible, but it's more accurate than "work to live."  I'm in the unbelievably lucky position that I absolutely love my job and am personally driven to do well at it.   I'm fortunate that it pays enough to live comfortably, but if all of the sudden I found out I wasn't going to get paid at all, I would still do everything possible to stay in my current job.  
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  • Somewhere in between, I think.  I like my job and I'm not a homebody (I go stir-crazy if I stay in my house too much... totally opposite of my H, interestingly enough). 

    If I were magically independently wealthy, I imagine I could find things other than my job to fulfill me-- travel and school (learning for learning's sake school) come to mind.

    In the unlikely event that magic $ doesn't fall out of sky, I'm cool with the status quo.  I like working generally and I specifically dig my career field.

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  • Totally work to live!
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  • I love my job and might even choose to do it if I won the lottery, but I honestly have turned down extra stipended work to have time at home with dog and DH.
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