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Starry maybe you and I are in the exact same boat...
M just showed up at my work before eight. With coffee and flowers. Oy. I'm starting to get creeped out.
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Re: Starry maybe you and I are in the exact same boat...
what did you say/do??
I was like a deer in the headlights. I just texted him and said I'm not ready for anything right now because he said "uhhh that backfired huh?"
The other night after he had started driving to my house I told him I was feeling really overwhelmed. Then I barely responded to his texts yesterday. But I could have been more direct. That's my bad.
I am seeing a lot of bold and desperate guys lately, what's up with that?
Sounds like you need to be more head on direct with this one. Sorry he is not taking your responses to heart. What a douche for not respecting what you say or feel.
WOWZERS.......
I mean, I geuss you could've been more direct, but I don't think you were extremely vague and loving with open arms like "Oh, not tonight, but I'd love to see you tomorrow!"
Boy oh boy....you must have a magic box.....
OMG, yes! Isnt this awful? Its just crazy! I know in the past, I have gotten pi$$ed when guys were flakely/didnt care enough, and NOW i have dealt with the other end of the spectrum!
After my post yesterday, I listened to everyone's advice and just ignored his texts. Well he didnt stop and kept saying he was going to wait for me, etc. So this morning I finally told him directly that there is NO future for us and to please stop texting me (it took several texts for him to "get it").
Sorry achase! I know how you feel!



Seriously, do you guys squirt chocolate milk out of your boobs or something?! Sorry you're dealing with nutso men.