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Because we haven't done this in a while, and it's always good for the soul! Lay 'em out if you have any.
Re: Confessions
Took the first one down. Realized I didn't like having it on the interwebs for all to see.
There are 11 new books sitting on our foyer table, with at least one more on the way. Some of them are pre-pubs for review, but most are new buys. We're ridiculous.
I'm thinking about flying into MI to see the Titanic re-release with my sister. We have a love-hate relationship with the movie. It'd be fun to see it together (again).
Here are mine: I feel like I've put on an embarrassing amount of weight since getting pg. I know that 5 of the lbs are Christmas, not baby, related, but weight is weight, no matter how you cut it. I'm not even at the halfway point (next week!), and I'm up 12 already. It doesn't make me feel very good, as I'm popping out slowly, and figure there's an explosion of weight gain ahead. I didn't want to gain any more than 25 lbs, and I'm beginning to feel like that's not going to be possible.
Also, I had a dream last night that one of my students tried to kiss me (much to my dream self's horror). I woke up in a cold sweat and felt SO gross after. I couldn't even look the kid in the eye today.
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I confess that Jennifer Aniston annoys the crap out of me. I just saw a headline saying Rudd and Aniston comedy gold in a new movie. 1. she looks horribly desperate 2. I wish the media would stop telling me that I have to love her.
For me, I confess that having things on the table for DH's job is stressful. I just want him to find a place to be and be happy. His nerves from waiting and wondering and talking the past few weeks are starting to show.
I am nervous about the next month and a half. I am studying for the final part of my professional certification which is all hand drafting, :/my office is moving and we have a huge event in our new space at the end of March as well. I am feeling a bit overwhelmed with it all.
I am mad at myself that I haven't been running like I was. I feel so much better when I do, but the weather and the studying have gotten in the way.
kaesha, as the many wonderful mothers on this board said to me when I was afraid of the same thing, it happens. You might pack on more weight that you'd like, but mostly it's what your body needs. That, and it will come off. I'm rather embarrassed by the fact that I pretty much totally stopped exercising and have put on 30 lbs. I look at the picture in my sig from Oct and it sort of makes me sad. I know I've put on weight/bloat in my face. But, my numbers are all good, my BP is normal, I passed my GTT with flying colours, and I'm growing a person. I decided to cut myself some slack. I've got a off year to get back into shape. Heck, I've got a year off to into even better shape.
My confession? I'm SO not motivated to work. I now have 7 weeks of work left and I just don't wanna. I've been slacking hardcore.
We'll just not tell H about this little fact, m'kay?
I couldn't agree with this more. Here I'll make you feel better. I was a little over weight to begin with and prior to knowing there were 2 babies in there, they recommended only gaining 25 lbs the entire pregancy. Then when we knew it was 2 they said 40-50lbs. Ummm yeah, I gained 75. Here I am 19 months later and not quite at my pre-pregancy weight (only 5 more lbs), but I am ok with it. Don't worry. As long as you are not always eating crap food, who cares you can lose it after.
My conffession now. My boss is on vacation this week, and even though I have a ton of work to do, I have slacked some. I even left a little early one day. At first I felt guilty, but I don't know because I feel like for the past 6 months I have given this place 150% or more, and not really gotten anything in return. This week, I just don't want to be here, so I'm doing what needs to get done and nothing more. I need to find my groove again though.
I was doing so good with the 30 day shred until I hadn't lost a darn pound on it. I skipped this weekend and lost three pounds. Screw you jillian!!
I am also starting to get kinda worried about money. I really wish I could find a way to really skimp and save. I really really really wanna take my kids to disney next year.
I've eaten nothing but junk since becoming KU. my body hated healthy food up until recently. I don't even feed bad about it.
also, I really give the side eye to some of the girl on my BMB. like some who are only 17 weeks pregnant and have their nursery essentially finished. wtf?
TTC since October 2010 | BFP 12/29/11 | RRQ BORN 08/26/12
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I was worried about gaining weight when I got pg as well. I gained 30 total and by 2 weeks pp I was back down to the same weight. I started out over where I should be and this should have been motivation to keep going on weight loss. Nope, sure wasn't. I really need to get into a workout/eating healthier routine but I use being a new mom as an excuse. Shame on me!
The best thing about reading it now is that you don't have to wait years for the next one to come out.
Enjoy the journey it is a great story.
Baby #2: Surprise BFP 9.19.12, EDD 5.24.13, natural m/c 10.19.13 at 9w
I'm very anxious at what my body will look like post baby. So many women tell me that in the weeks following birth their stomach looked like a deflated balloon. What worries me the most is that this will affect my mood so adversely that I will be miserable and it could add to PPD. If I have a day where my pants fit the wrong way, it will throw my mood off so it seems like this had the potential to be like that x 1000.
The idea of no exercise for 6 weeks is pretty terrifying. I haven't taken more than 3 days in a row off in maybe a few years. It's my stress relief.
I can't imagine this either, and it's also been something that makes me very nervous about having a baby. I think 3 or 4 days is the longest I've gone without working out in the past decade or so! I get very stressed out when I don't work out, and I tend to beat myself up over it which further adds to the stress. Maybe you can make a habit of going on long walks with the baby carriage? Is that allowed?
For my confession, I haven't had my hair highlighted or cut since last May and it is starting to look ROUGH. The only stylist I have found that I like in the last 6 years is super expensive and I simply cannot afford to pay $300 to have my hair done every 2-3 months like I should, so I tend to put it off. I started thinking maybe I would try to grow my hair out and return to my natural color so I could end this whole cycle of highlighting so I haven't gone to the salon in like 9 months. I've been telling myself that my natural color blends pretty decently into the existing highlights, but I think I'm fooling myself and now it's starting to drive me nuts. Also, my hair is getting so long that I am worried I'm a month or two away from looking like a Duggar. I finally bit the bullet yesterday and called to make an appointment. I'm kind of disappointed that I will probably never get my natural, healthy hair back and I'm also nervous that my stylist will judge me for letting my roots grow out SO much.
Just remember, it's all temporary, and it's all worth it!
Baby #2: Surprise BFP 9.19.12, EDD 5.24.13, natural m/c 10.19.13 at 9w
I don't have any confessions but since pregnancy weight is a common topic in this thread, I just wanted to pass on some friendly advice. If and when you ladies breast feed, try to work out and eat healthy then. Even if it is just a little. I totally regret doing this, it would have been SO much easier. When I weaned Makenna I could almost immediately see how fast I started gaining weight since my body wasn't working in overdrive to produce that milk. Now I have to bust my butt to get the weight off before I get preg again. Boo.
Jess & Waylon 08.08.09 ~ My Blog!
I know, right? I haven't even finished turning the room into a guest room, let alone a baby's room! BMB are a little crazy.
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