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The one night I can post...(DH and masturbating)

and really the board isn't that lively! Boo! My baby is asleep, I have a nice glass of white wine, DH is out at the store, and not many posts to read!

So, I can't do a poll on here for some reason, but I was thinking...

Does your DH know you masturbate? Do you know if he does? 

If either of you say you don't, do you really think that is true?

My DH and I both don't masturbate...yes, I know crazy! But seriously, I am curious to know if he does? He says he doesn't, but most guys do, right? I have urges too, but then my DH shows up at the right time, and I think he would be hurt if I did. 

Re: The one night I can post...(DH and masturbating)

  • We're both pretty open about this stuff.  We both do (together and/or alone).  I personally don't see any reason to be hurt by it and I am generally pretty skeptical of anyone who says they don't.
  • I rarely do because our sex life is pretty active. MH knows when I do.

    He says he doesn't really anymore... that it's not as much fun/hard to get into/blah blah.   I believe him for the most part but I still think he probably does every now and then.

    Honestly I could care less one way or the other.

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  • My husband claims that he doesn't and I have tried multiple times to catch him in the act Surprise  I am pretty sure he did the night Wendy, Susan and I had drinks though because a few days later he alluded to it (seriously, this has become a game to me) but would never admit it.

    Does he know that I do? Not sure.

  • That is hilarious, PW.
  • We both do. It's nothing we announce to the other...I don't get why people think it's a big deal.  It feels good, FFS!  I have no clue why either person would get mad about it...unless they were doing that but not also having sex with their SO.
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