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WWYD? (sorry in advance for the neuroticism)
So this is probably just the result of me having a ridiculously stupid, emotionally draining, physically exhausting, mentally crazy week, but I'm questioning what I should do about something as simple as this weekend.
I think i've mentioned that K and I have spent pretty much every weekend together for the past three weekends (including ALL of this past weekend), and have seen each other every weekend for the last five weeks.
He gchatted me last night while I was at a networking event to ask if I was feeling any better (he was around this weekend when I learned about the funeral I mentioned earlier), and I told him the day was kind of hit or miss, with bad news from recruiters, craziness with my family, but that I was really excited to me at the networking event meeting a lot of wonderful women activists. We joked a bit about our days, and then he told me he was glad I was getting to meet some people, and hoped I made some good contacts (ending in smiley emoticon).
I just realized it's Thursday evening, though, and I haven't heard from him. Which means I don't know if he's planning on coming down here this weekend, or.... Do I wait for him to send a msg tmrw, or do I send him an email to see what's up? To be honest, I wouldn't mind a weekend just getting myself together if he's busy, but I'm fine with him coming, too. I'd just like to have a heads up.
Again, sorry for the neuroticism - I swear, this week was hell on earth for me. 
"You don't get to be all puke-face about your kid shooting your undead baby daddy when all you had to do was KEEP HIM IN THE FLUCKING HOUSE, LORI!" - doctorwho
Re: WWYD? (sorry in advance for the neuroticism)
Sorry that you had a bad week! Why don't you just email him and say "So what are your plans this weekend?"...
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
I would do this. At least you aren't leading him into either answer, but you would get the heads up. I hope you get a nice relaxing weekend to re-energize after a stressful week.
Thanks, ladies!
Sent him an email last night, and he responded this morning. He'll be down tomorrow.
"You don't get to be all puke-face about your kid shooting your undead baby daddy when all you had to do was KEEP HIM IN THE FLUCKING HOUSE, LORI!" - doctorwho