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ShansBride
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Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
would you say something?
let's pretend that someone very close to you (BFF, sister, cousin, whatever) is engaged to a jerk. All of her family thinks he's a jerk, but no one will tell her. Would you say anything to her?
Re: would you say something?
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All of her family thinks he's a jerk, but no one will tell her? If she has a blind eye to his behavior, she's not going to believe or appreciate anyone telling her the fiance is a jerk.
Being someone who had a very huge JERK before my current DH, I have to say, if anyone told me, I wouldn't have listened. Now, do I wish someone would have said something? HECK YES! But, I really doubt I would of truly listened, I might have said, oh really? Thought about it and then decided I don't believe them. Then, I would have probably talked to that person less.
I think it really depends on the relationship you have with this person. Is this someone you are flat honest with, tell everything to? Then perhaps you can try. But, this is very tough territory.