Trouble in Paradise
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Guys- you must read bval's latest posts
and ESD- I kind of want to cry. Bval bought an owl skin for her Kindle. I bet it's the same and that makes me sad.
And here's ML's post about bval's latest craziness. I love that these ladies are so enamored with her bsc.
http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/63741332.aspx
Currently Reading: Don Quixote by Miguel De Cervantes
Re: Guys- you must read bval's latest posts
She has sullied our good name. Can't we make it clear that she was only a semi-reg, not fully accepted by all of TIP?
Also, how the funk can she afford a Nook/Kindle/whatever and this shiny new case? WTF? I haven't even bought my Dodo case yet because it's $50 damn dollars.
I was thinking the same thing, Motzie. The only reason I own a Kindle is because I received it as a gift (and it was a BIG deal for my mom to be able to afford it). And although I have a skin, I don't have a case yet because they ARE expensive.
And Brandon is sick too. And now bval had uterine cysts burst. Why are these people so effing sick?
The last few posts just made me realize that not only is she a lazy user, she's also kind of a crappy human being. And a TOTAL f00king hypocrite.
Currently Reading: Don Quixote by Miguel De Cervantes
I can't even actually make myself read the blog. I'm guessing a diet of soda and hamburger helper, combined with a rat feces infested house doesn't bide well with the body's immune system.
I think I met a member of the BVal hoard yesterday. It was... not awesome.
[link to post on my BMB]
I just caught up on the last few posts that I've missed and I think I'm going to just say no.
She is thrilled her page views have gone up. I will no longer reward her.
She showers. On her knees. And she can't focus on her therapy now because her sister is pregnant and will have to talk about that in therapy instead? How interesting, something that is not at all about her is now somehow about her. Hmmm.
Oh, and LOLing at kids are unclean and rats are for grooming.
No way. My husband lived on that diet before we lived together, and he was damn hot. Sloth begets sloth- this is her sole problem. /gavel.
And I hate you all for making me read this. Now I can't resist.
I think about being a sahw sometimes. Then I remember how I handled it when we moved here, before our vehicles had arrived. I lasted exactly 1 month before I lost it and pushed H down the stairs out of boredom. *drama added and details changed because BVal always does*
Currently Reading: Don Quixote by Miguel De Cervantes
Ladies, she can't get better now, because this is another thing added to her life and mental grief. SHE CAN NOT GET BETTER BECAUSE OF SOMETHING ELSE IN THE WORLD HAPPENING. WTH is she going to do when peace breaks out in the Middle East? OMG, something in the world is changing, when I had just gotten used to it all! How am I going to cope with change?!?
Her sister [who she doesn't speak to] having a baby is just another situation that is ALL ABOUT HER.
Someone, quick, make a Family Guy episode out of her life. The hyperbole is too much.
*head explodes*
This is a good point. It'd be one thing if the sister's "irresponsibility" about being a hor and having this baby was going to impact her (like she was going to have to babysit and throw a shower and pretend like she's happy for her). But if it's someone you don't speak to... just pretend the baby doesn't exist and move on with your effing life!
Currently Reading: Don Quixote by Miguel De Cervantes
I couldn't understand how her sister having a baby was causing her to be completely unable to get better. WTMF does someone else having a baby have to do with her and her health?? She is just such a victim all.the.time and I would love to just smack some sense into her, literally. Although according to this post below, she would like to be a victim for once. Just once! Because she's never the victim. Oookkkaaayyy.
So how can I add one more thing to the load? Can I add one more thing? Am I going to drop it all? I don't *** know. I really don't. I'm just so *** angry at everything. At her, at my illness, at myself for all of the reasons ever, at the rest of the world for every reason I can think of. Because I am tired of rolling with the punches, taking it all in stride, being the healthiest sick person anyone's ever met. I want to scream and cry and be sullen and be a victim. Once. Just once. I want to treat everyone else like *** and use something as an excuse. I want to STOP being me.
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I am dying that bval thinks she is the "healthiest sick person anyone's ever met." What?
Also I can't for the life of me figure out how her sister's pregnancy is her problem and will impede her recovery. I guess her magic calcium cure isn't working? Or maybe her sister's pregnancy actually gives bval more calcium somehow?
Also, I wish it was Annie who was knocked up. The post would be an amazing mix of outrage over Annie having sex with someone else and ramblings about Annie, Bval and Brandon raising the baby together on trips to all the zoos of the world. I'm a little sad the world is missing out on that.
BFP #4 It's a BOY!
CP: July 2011
BFP #3: 11/3/2011 M/C 12/12/11
We miss you and love you always, little firecrackers!
Self awareness is not her strong suit.
being the healthiest sick person anyone's ever met
I was thinking more the sickest healthy person anyone's ever met.
I'm not really following the bval thing. I've read her blog once or twice, and looked at some of her last posts on here. I think she is probably pretty seriously mentally ill. Either she really believes she is paralyzed and all that, or she just pretends to be that sick for attention and pity...either way, something is wrong with her medulla oblongata. And that is unfortunate, and I hope she gets help for it.
I know a couple of individuals like her. Perhaps not as serious (they don't have paralysis), but they truly believe they are suffering from an illness so debilitating that it's difficult to fulfill the daily functions of life. And yet, doctors can't find anything wrong. Curiously, both are middle-aged men, never been married, no kids, few (or no) friends, etc. Basically, they have nothing else to do besides obsess about their health. But if you suggest to the one (my crazy uncle) that perhaps it is a mental illness, he gets violently angry and refuses help for it. I'm not sure the other has ever tried a psychiatrist instead of the team of neurologists he believes he needs.