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Possibly way TMI?!

So I was talking to a friend at work about sex, and we got on the topic of squirting. I have never done this but she has, says its amazing. She tried to explain it to me but I just can't get it haha. I think this is pretty tmi since in over a year I have never read a post about this topic. Anybody know much about it? I googled and didn't get how your supposed to do it?! Maybe I am just not talented enough to figure it out. Can you do this? Is there a trick? So interested.
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Re: Possibly way TMI?!

  • I've never done it, and from my understanding, it's not something that just any woman can do. People don't really know much about it, but in general it's not very common.
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  • It's been discussed on and off on this board.

    And no, not every woman can do it. It's something that can't be learned.
  • Not everyone can do it. I don't think there is a secret to making yourself squirt. 
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  • Ok thanks for replying. I just couldn't find much about it and was interested. 
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  • Female ejaculation is when fluid (not urine) that is expelled from the vagina during an intense orgasm.  Some women do seem to have the capacity to produce large quantities of this fluid and propel it long distances.

    If you want to see some good examples, google Cyntherea or type in her name on Redtube.com for free video clips.  Please be aware that these are porn and will show the most extreme examples, so take it with a grain of salt.

    But there is nothing wrong with experimenting to see if you have this capacity.  Most women who ejaculate seem to respond to strong sensations of vaginal penetration and clitoral stimulation - never a bad thing!   

  • I can, but then again I can keep myself from doing it as well. When I first did, I thought something was wrong with me. I was alone, and I was like WTF?! During sex it almost feels like you have to pee, and if you push you squirt. If you aren't hydrated you can't, and it's not like the crazy stuff you see in porn.

    Daring Miss explained it wonderfully above too.

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    If you want to see some good examples, google Cyntherea   

    Cytherea
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  • It doesn't happen to everyone. For many women, it only happens under specific circumstances, like a g-spot orgasm or multiple orgasm. If you have netflix, you can instant watch the episode of Strange Sex that has a segment about it.
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    If you want to see some good examples, google Cyntherea   

    Cytherea

    Thanks for the spelling correction.

    I must admit that I watch porn that involves squirting.  I find it much more enjoyable because I can honestly see that the women are experiencing pleasure rather than fake moans and writhing or worse - outright signs of pain and discomfort -- that porn shows.  Plus, I think that encouraging men to get sexual satisfaction out of the pleasure they can give their partners is a better message than "a woman has a set of holes you can stick your d!ck in".

  • Like pp's state, not all ladies can/know how... and as gross as this will sound... its how I learned... when you have a very intense orgasm and you feel like you have to pee, do it... I promise you, urine wont come out, that is how a female ejaculates.
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  • As the others said, not all women are able to do this.  I was stunned the first time that it happened to me, but I have figured out what I need to have that kind of orgasm more often. It just takes trial and error, I really think the key to it is to not think about it, if it happens, it happens.  The more that you strive for it, the more elusive it can be.  
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