Throw it out?

arborgold · February 2012

So...I just realized that K left a few things here (toothbrush, toothpaste, a couple towels). He hasn't tried to contact me since he walked out without saying goodbye on Sunday morning, and I haven't tried to contact him, either. Should I send a message letting him know I have this stuff, or just get rid of it? Or do I wait a couple more days?

HeavenlyExcitedBride · February 2012

I would wait a few more days and then throw it out if he has not inquired for them. Personally, I might feel the sting/reminder of rejection for the second time if I was asked if I wanted those type of items left after a break-up. I would want to move on as fast as I could. But that is just me.

DorisWE · February 2012

I'd throw it in a bag (so it's out of sight) and wait it out a few days. If he doesn't ask for it back, I'd toss it after a week or so.

arborgold · February 2012

Thanks, ladies - that was my first instinct, but I thought I'd get your opinions. Into a bag the stuff goes. If I don't hear from him by the time I get back from my conference, into the trash the bag goes.

Done, and done. Smile

cemacmil · February 2012

DorisWE:
I'd throw it in a bag (so it's out of sight) and wait it out a few days. If he doesn't ask for it back, I'd toss it after a week or so.

Completey this.

ReturnOfKuus · February 2012

I'd get rid of the toothbrush, but can't you use toothpaste and a few extra towels? No need to throw those out.

River Pestie · February 2012

ReturnOfKuus:
I'd get rid of the toothbrush, but can't you use toothpaste and a few extra towels? No need to throw those out.

This! But I like to use old toothbrushes to clean around the faucets and small places that need scrubbing.

LandOBiscuit · March 2012

I'd put everything into a bag and drop it at his place. I couldn't throw it away because I'd hate for someone to do that to me.

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