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WTF Wednesday, Leap Day Edition
WTF self - he came, he left; you knew it wasn't going to be easy so why don't you pull it together and let yourself completely move on. He never loved you and never will. MOVE ON.
WTF self pity - So literally 80% of your friends are pregnant or just had babies and your BFF just told you she's having another baby. Quit thinking it's never going to happen for you one day.
WTF self - you used to be the most positive person in the room. You let one person control your happy and now that he's gone and you think your happy is gone, it only hurts yourself.

People are placed in and taken out of our lives for a multitude of reasons. My faith has me looking upward so I might stay on my path, forward to reach my future and to either side for the ones to walk near me on my journey.
Re: WTF Wednesday, Leap Day Edition
WTF self - get motivated to do what is needed to the house before the realtor comes this weekend to take pictures of the house.
WTF, self? Stop looking at land and house listings when you are in no postition to buy!
WTF, self? Streighten up and lose some weight before the Bahamas!
WTF, self? Stop p!ssing away time on the interwebz, and do some actual work!
WTF mediator - don't tell me I have the option to get a police escort to my car and then refuse to tell me why!!!! If you're worried about me enough to tell me that, then I have every right to know what was said that made you concerned!
WTF attorney - call me back already!
WTF self - your brain is just not functioning and you have a lot to get done at work today!
WTF self-starting tomorrow you are going back on the weight loss program (diet and exercise). Get motivated! you have a cruise in less than 40 days! That means wearing a bathing suit!
WTF crazy stage 5 clinger guy- I told you directly to not contact me again and that there is no future for us. You wont stop texting RiverPestie and then this morning sent me 5 text messages. The best one of the bunch was "I would leave you alone, but I really like you. Much Respect..." WTF?
WTF self- start cleaning your house! its dirty!
WTF self - get out of this funk! Pull yourself together and DO SOMETHING
WTF Volcum Hoodie - why oh why, must you cost an arm and a leg? Dont you know I have to buy TWO!
WTF friends - why cant anyone travel with me? I'm itching to go somewhere in April and no one to go with
woe is me...
WTF self-you've been working your asss off and your client load has more than doubled along with your responsibilities in the last year. Get into the CFO's office and ask for that raise you deserve!
WTF budget-despite working OT I still have no money?
WTF tax return-get into my account already!!!
WTF life - Stop teasing me with this house purchase and just make it happen already.
WTF Sister- Stopping being such a biatch and playing the victim with everything. No one wants to hear it because we all know it's lies.
WTF purple drink with free lunch - wtf for exploding all over me and my desk for no reason.
WTF self - - start excercising! You will not be able to lose weight without putting time in the gym or at home. Get off your butt!
WTF self - clean the d*mn house! It is so messy!
You should go by yourself! I'm going to Chicago in April by myself. I'm a little anxious, but excited. Do ittt!
WTF time - Why are you moving so slow. It's not even 9 yet!
WTF self - You were doing so good going to the gym, then you slacked off for a week. Go to the gym today!! And please stop eating like crap.
WTF STBXH- I'm filing an emergency hearing to get my phone number released to me. I am seriously pissy about this. I tried being nice
WTF STBXH- you closed the account MY refund was suppose to go into. I can't get a number to get an actual person on the phone. I need to change where the money goes. FVCKINGFUVCCKFUCKIE.
WTF self- do not give douchecanoe an ounce of control.
WTF self-it's not even spring break and you have already started slacking on the homework front! You got your rear in gear last semester and made stellar grades, you need to do the same this semester!
WTF self-you promised you would get on a work out regime and yet you go maybe once a week. Once a week will not make a swimsuit ready body!
WTF self-your driver's license expires today and you have no time to renew it, why didn't you do this earlier? That plus leaving your credit card at Walgreen's last night, what is up with you?
I think I have a serious case of the lazies. Someone tell me they have a cure.
Taking my lunch break to complain!
WTF bar exam site supervisor--Didn't you see the "don't argue with me" warning on my forehead? I read the dress code and scarves were not included on the list of unapproved clothing at the bar exam. That's right, I will refer you to your own rules at 8am and prove you wrong! Booyah! Scarf stays ON biatch!
WTF self-way to piss off the exam site supervisor. Next time it would just be easier to comply with her stupid requests instead of arguing on principle.
WTF snow-I'm cold!
I am in a BAD mood aka PMS so I might go off on this one.
WTF Bridesmaid dress-You don't fit because I have been unable to work out for 6 weeks because of my broken tailbone. It also doesnt help Taylor Swift wore the same dress to some big event and is in a magazine and it looks way cute on her.
WTF Gas Prices-Seriously unless the crap is liquid gold, I want to refuse to drive to work or stage some kind of protest. Its up to $4.41 here in LA.
WTF Sleep-I have literally woken up at 2:15 am the last 3 nights and not been able to go back to sleep. Im functioning like a zombie and Im going crazy.
WTF Cramps-I hate you and I want to be in bed.
*Breath*
LOL, MCC! I love you so much for this.
WTF FWB - I know you don't want our friends to know we are sleeping together, but is it really necessary to pretty much ignore me when I saw you at the game store yesterday? Trust me, acting like that, people will know something is up. I don't care if people know so what is the big deal?
WTF self - get up and get moving! You complain about the weight so get moving to get it off. 1 hr walks once a week isn't enough.
WTF MIL - I'm sorry that you "lost" 2 babysitting days a month when STBXH and I set up this custody arrangement but I am not losing time with my son to appease you. This arrangement is what works best for STBXH, DS and I and those are the only people it needs to work for. If you don't feel like you get enough time with DS, then change your work schedule. STBXH lives with you FFS! You see DS more often than most grandparents.
WTF Body -- Why do you want to eat 20 lbs of salty food every day. You know this is why you feel gross and bloated, right?
WTF Grad School -- A "call or email" by the end of February means today, right? I'm going absolutely insane with anticipation.
WTF Self -- You jogged today, that's great. Now you need to actually work toward accomplishing your goals. Quit distracting yourself thinking about dating and fashion and start doing what you claim to want to do.
WTF STBXH -- You really need to stop with this "woe is me" business. It's manipulative and really unattractive. If you really wanted me to stay with you, you would have treated me better. Period. I'm moving on and no amount of crying and begging is going to make me think you've actually changed.
You're kind of my hero right now, just so you know...
"You don't get to be all puke-face about your kid shooting your undead baby daddy when all you had to do was KEEP HIM IN THE FLUCKING HOUSE, LORI!" - doctorwho
Second this! The first time I traveled alone I was so scared, but now - psh, it's the only way to travel! Try it at least once!