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I feel bad...
K is messaging me right now, apologizing for acting childish and proposing that we cut out sex for the time being because it's so frustrating for him.
The thing is, it's not just the sex. It's his aversion to alcohol (I'm an avid wine drinker - I enjoy good wines and collect them), his aversion to social situations, his lack of passion for any of the issues that I'm passionate about (or any issues, really), etc. I just sent him a message that basically said I felt like I was forcing him into a lot of things he wasn't comfortable with, and that it was fine that he wasn't comfortable with them, but that I enjoyed those things and it would be difficult for me to be in a relationship with someone who didn't enjoy them, too.
And now we're back to silence for the last ten minutes. Sigh.
"You don't get to be all puke-face about your kid shooting your undead baby daddy when all you had to do was KEEP HIM IN THE FLUCKING HOUSE, LORI!" - doctorwho
Re: I feel bad...
Call the poor guy and cut it off! If he doesnt pickup, then just leave a message...
Onward and upward!
You should not feel bad at all. Maybe you feel bad for him but don't let that pull you down. It is quite simple that you both are not compatible and do not have anything in common which is nothing to feel bad about.
This is how I see it.... when you go to the pet store, don't take home a very sickly, needy or mean puppy. You want to take home a healthy playful fun puppy.
It is the same way when picking out a man.
I PPH you for this, Heavenly.