Starting Over
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

Facebook

I made a rule after the last guy that no matter how well things were going or how nosy I was that I wouldn't even friend someone I was dating until we'd been together for at least 4 months, and wouldn't even contemplate changing a relationship status/linking pages until at least 6 months. At the time, I really thought I would fail, because I think it's great to be able to learn more things about the person you're dating, and get familiar with who's who of their family and friends through pictures. I felt like it would help progress the comfortableness of the growing relationship. 

Well, I'm happy to report that I'm doing very well! lol he's shown me his pics, but I haven't been curious or anxious to get access to see what he's doing on there. It's actually pretty refreshing to not have it all in my face. I mean, of course I'm interested in seeing it, but it's ok that I don't for a while.

I know it sounds silly, but this is pretty big for me! lol  

Re: Facebook

  • Congrats! Progress is good. :)
  • I'm a lurker so take this with a grain of salt. But you won't friend the guy your dating b/c of a timelime, but sleeping with him and paying for a big piece of a vacation is ok? This isn't trying to be a flame as much as understanding if you are afraid of fb for your reasons, aren't the other 2 a bigger risk?
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  • I don't get this Emmi. You're going on vacay together but won't fb friend him??
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