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Scratch all of the double orders jazz. It got straightened out, Guam it is because he had already signed for his 19 month extension.
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The only reason one of them will be cancelled (unsure which, yet) is because the system somehow put 2 RIPs through. He's working with the assignment person now. I'm not sure if it's often that orders get cancelled when they just get one set, my husband has only been in for 3 years but we've never heard of that happening.
We have heard of people turning orders down, though.
This is why I try not to get excited or settled into the idea of ANYTHING until it's 100% as in AFTER the fact.
Thank you. We just found out we have an assignment to AK, and I'm really hoping nothing falls through. He keeps telling me not to get my hopes up, so I don't get disappointed just in case.
How do you prepare and get everything done knowing it could all fall through at the last second? Especially if you have to go from Florida, to Alaska
I'm certainly no expert in the matters of PCS'ing, especially OCONUS locations. I don't hear of a lot of people having orders change, though. I'd say just go ahead with the planning and whatever happens happens. Unfortunately, such is the life.
It happened to DH too. He got his notification that he was going to Little Rock and we even got a welcome letter on the mail. After a week his orders was cancelled. He found out that the person that supposed to sign the papers didn't sign it. But he got the orders back and we are moving to Arkansas in a few days.
I know what you mean. It's really frustrating and hopefully he'll figured it out soon!
I'm starting to learn, I have no say in where we live. I can deal with that though, I just don't wanna sell our cars, or quit my job and then find out we're staying. We'll have to put all the stuff like that off 'til we're a month or so out.
Dude, that blows.
I've got my fingers crossed for a third set of orders somewhere stateside on your wish list. Fat chance, I know but you know the military...it's not true until you're there.
Truth.
Truth.
Yep!!!
But yay for accompanied!
We had orders for Guam cancelled 30 days before we were supposed to move there. They got changed to Japan. Fun times! This was after 3 previous assignments (in about as many months) fell through, including a by name request, although we only had verbal confirmation of those. Oh, yes, our first year of marriage was interesting.
One of the explanations for the Japan/Guam thing was that it was something like being assigned to the 36th instead of the 35th, so it was a typo. But, we had contacted our sponsor in Guam, and they were anticipating H specifically, so who knows.
Our story, though, is quite rare. It shouldn't scare anyone. We've never met people who were as consistently jerked around as us.
My H loved it there, I'm really not too worried. Hopefully we get a great follow on, if he stays in.
Holy craziness!
This is the stuff mini heart attacks are made of.