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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Re: Liubot- please update
I was really pulling for you when you went inpatient. I was really hoping you had seen the light and realized the path you were on was not a good one. However, instead you are still pulling the same shiznit. Come on, PLEASE!
1. Get a dollar store pregnancy test. or get that supportive family to buy you one
2. Stop having unprotected sex. You are in no place mentally, physically, or financially for a child. A kid deserves better than what you have to offer right now
3. Go see a therapist yesterday. Consider going inpatient again. Lean on that supportive family if you have to.
4. Stop creating drama where there is none. This could be a total non-issue if you just pulled your head out of your a$$, act like a freaking adult, and deal with your problems.
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past.
She DD'ed her response which then deleted all responses after it.
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
interesting.
so i guess she quit us. again?
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Yup. GBCSO
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
Her last post said that she wasn't so we could all be happy that she wasn't ruining the world. There was more drama said but I can't remember it.
I hate to sound cynical but I don't think she will ever take our advice. She thrives on the drama.
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
Yea you are so right. She is way too sensitive to be posting her problems here because she just can't handle the brutal honesty everyone offers her. Oh well!
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Anyone want p. 1? I don't have page 2, unfortunately (or 3, if there was one).
Hey, having unprotected sex with her XBF that she still lived with was just a natural thing to do and not something she should be held responsible for!
And just stressing about being pregnant and the implications of that rather than taking a freaking pregnancy test was because her life is hard, yo! She can't afford them! But, if she had a baby, she'd be fine!
You forgot to mention the completely healthy and undying love that her and her XBF have for each other and how she has never had this love before--yet they beat the shitt out of each other.
ETA: but the abuse is okay and justified because they both have mental illness. And you know, if you have mental illness, you can't control yourself.
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
She can't change any of that! It just happens to her! None of these are consequences of her own actions! She couldn't use protection (it's unnatural), she couldn't buy a pregnancy test (she only has $10), she can't end it with the boyfriend (because it's true love), and she can't get herself healthy before pursuing a relationship (also true love's fault). All these women are just mean! They don't know her life!
Orrrr, they are trying to show you how YOU could have changed each of these outcomes through your own actions. Trying to show you how effed up everything is and that YOU PLAY A PART IN THAT! You have to want to change for there to be change.
When you can't even afford a pregnancy test and only have $10 until your next paycheck.