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I'm so sorry. :-(

Hey girls, 

 

I just wanted to apologize for being so lame last night and creating drama, even though I said I didn't want it. I didn't and don't want drama. But what I didn't realize and think through, is that it would possibly turn into drama. Especially asking y'all to not make drama was asking for drama. ha...yeah. Big mistake on my part.

I honestly did not think it through and look at all consequences. I'm sorry for hurting feelings, acting "childish" and creating unnecessary drama. I had my reasoning for saying what I thought of her and wanted everyone to have the chance to see something good of it. I just.didn't.think.it.through. 

I know words can't show true emotions, but I truly am very sorry.

 This board was a lot better before I started posting. I just came back on a bad day. (as in for me. being hormonal an all) 

I'm going now. 

PS I'd like to delete that post, but I think it would cause more drama so it will stay there. 

image ~~~Jan 31st, 2010. Back together again.~~~

Re: I'm so sorry. :-(

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    I'm sorry, but this is even more unnecessarily dramatic than last night's mess. I didn't post in the other thread because I thought it was ridiculous, but now that you've started another one I feel the need to say something. Stop. Just stop. You left, the board moved on, you came back, and somehow expected people still needed to discuss the past. Either drop it and start talking about something new or leave again.
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  • I don't think she expected anyone to rehash drama. She met BBG IRL and when some confessed they missed her on her, Smiles was simply excited to share that BBG is just as awesome in person as she portrays herself online and on other outlets.
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  • imageNSL:
    I'm sorry, but this is even more unnecessarily dramatic than last night's mess. I didn't post in the other thread because I thought it was ridiculous, but now that you've started another one I feel the need to say something. Stop. Just stop. You left, the board moved on, you came back, and somehow expected people still needed to discuss the past. Either drop it and start talking about something new or leave again.
    Way to be a biitch. Obviously you don't know Smilies or her mode of operation.
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  • imageLemonLover33:
    imageNSL:
    I'm sorry, but this is even more unnecessarily dramatic than last night's mess. I didn't post in the other thread because I thought it was ridiculous, but now that you've started another one I feel the need to say something. Stop. Just stop. You left, the board moved on, you came back, and somehow expected people still needed to discuss the past. Either drop it and start talking about something new or leave again.
    Way to be a biitch. Obviously you don't know Smilies or her mode of operation.

    Agreed. She's apologizing for making some people upset by bringing it back up. It's the same thing as any other time one of us says something that ticks others off and we apologize for what we said when the way it ended up wasn't our intention. It's not a big deal. Get the sand out of you crotch please.

    C, thank you for posting where you were coming from. While I think the first post shouldn't have been made (or at least not in a completely seperate post), I appreciate that you were trying to stick up for a IRL friend and saw that what you said was taken the wrong way by others.

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  • I think the apology should've been left in the BBGurl thread.
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  • I do too, but there are people who won't even open it anymore to stay away from the drama, so I think this way everyone saw it. There's no way everyone will be happy here, so I think we just need to all drop it and move on. No more talk of any of it.
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  • imageSookie Stackhouse:

    Agreed. She's apologizing for making some people upset by bringing it back up. It's the same thing as any other time one of us says something that ticks others off and we apologize for what we said when the way it ended up wasn't our intention. It's not a big deal. Get the sand out of you crotch please.

    C, thank you for posting where you were coming from. While I think the first post shouldn't have been made (or at least not in a completely seperate post), I appreciate that you were trying to stick up for a IRL friend and saw that what you said was taken the wrong way by others.

    I don't know anything about what is being talked about. I just wanted to let you know that I almost DIED when I saw your siggy. Haha!

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  • I think that these posts have at least reminded us all of the necessity of PERSEC.  I have never, nor will I ever post something on here I would be ashamed to back up in real life.  But I have also never shared any personally identifying information other than through PM (at least I don't think I have).

    Smiles, don't feel too bad.  I enjoyed reading the thread.  Bwahaha

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  • This is all so weird.  And AW-y.
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  • This is a "damned if you do, damned if you don't" situation I think. OP would have been flamed on the original thread if she had apologized there too. But FWIW, I think that Smiles is being sincere in that she really didn't want to cause drama. It just happened to be a touchy subject still. 

    No worries. It's over and done with. I hope we can move on now. 

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  • I don't think smiles is getting flamed. I honestly don't think this is a big deal. Maybe because I didn't get involved. Eh. Whatevs. I have bigger problems than shiit on the Internet. 
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