Starting Over
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
2nd week on my own, an update
So, I'm happy to say that I am doing much better than last week! I've gotten back to a regular workout schedule, and in general just feel much more like myself. H and I have been getting along fine, he's been a big help with my move, and him and SS came over for pizza last weekend, and it was nice. I have no idea if H is still talking to the girl from last week, but I think I've come to terms with the fact that we will both be moving on eventually. I've been careful to contact him if I need to get stuff from our old place rather than just popping in as though it's still my place. The last thing I want is to see something I don't want, or have him have to tell me to be careful about just stopping by, that would be awkward. I figured it's better to just start setting boundaries right away and avoid any awkwardness later on.
If he has chosen to move on so soon, I think it's a mistake since he hasn't taken time to heal, but I've accepted that this is his choice. I am choosing to wait because I want to give myself plenty of time to recover, and not rush into anything. Although, I will say since news of our split got out, I've had a lot of male friends on Facebook sending me messages, so I think I'll have some options when I am ready, lol! In the meantime, I'm staying busy with work, setting up my new house, my dogs, workouts, and spending time with friends. I feel like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders not having to wonder every night what time he'll be coming home, if he'll be coming home, and in what state he'll be when he does show up.
11/20/2011 1/2 Marathon 2:20:25
12/4/2011 1/2 Marathon 2:16:19
12/11/2011 1/2 Marathon 2:15:53
Re: 2nd week on my own, an update
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04