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FB and the stupid things folks post

I usually do not care what folk?s post of FB, but this one was like WTF. Here goes?

My son has been on this earth for 2 months now and NO ONE in his FAMILY has bought his anything.... not a bid, a diaper, a sock NOTHING!!!! Its a damn shame when your damn friends do more for you than your own FAMILY... to me family is another word for DNA!!!!

 

This is my cousin, first thought this is your child you need to take care of it. Why should family support your kid? If you cannot afford them do not have them.

All I have to say is if you aren't buying my son diapers, clothes, formula, medicine, and/or giving out rides. PLEASE do not ask me how he is doing, how was his doctor appts, how big he is, or to be added or tagged in photos. While his parents are out here struggling in silence selling our own clothes off our backs to make sure he GOOD!!! HOW DARE YOU!! As far as I am concerned he has NO FAMILY other than his PARENTS!!! Please DO NOT comment or write on my post unless you plan on sending a care package or paying some of these Fing ills... PERIOD!!!

This is her second post, are you serious. If you are so struggling why the he!! Are you having kids? It is not our problem you cannot do your job as a parent. What really pisses me off is Friday she was posting about getting her hair done and going out the club. Like I said usually I do not even care about what folks post but crap like this pisses me off. I rather have tax dollars pay for birth control because I know it is much cheaper than raising a kid from birth to 18 plus prenatal cares etc. I will gladly give these folks money for the pill, shot, a condom, something. Sorry vent over just burn my blood because children do not ask to be here or to have stupid parents.  

Re: FB and the stupid things folks post

  • You should submit her to STFU parents. 
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    You should submit her to STFU parents. 
    Do it!

     

    That post is ridiculous. 

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  • How old is your cousin? Does your cousin still live at home?

    That is really sad.

    But

    I also vote to put it on stfu parents Devil

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  • She is 25, no she does not live at home. It is sad, because children do not ask to be here. She knew her financial situation was not stable when she got pregnant. It is not like she got pregnant and then lost her job. I am a little slow or a lot slow what does STFU mean.

     

    Thanks,

  • She just wants attention, and you're giving it to her. She's probably used to getting what she wants by whining about it. Shame on anyone who rewards her incredible rudeness with baby gifts.

    Hide her posts, or defriend her, and forget about this. And don't send her a gift. An attention-hog like this is not worth your time.

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    She is 25, no she does not live at home. It is sad, because children do not ask to be here. She knew her financial situation was not stable when she got pregnant. It is not like she got pregnant and then lost her job. I am a little slow or a lot slow what does STFU mean.

     

    Thanks,

    http://www.stfuparentsblog.com/submitfaq

    You can take comfort in the fact that most of her FB friends are rolling their eyes at her the same way you are...

     

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  • You should respond by asking her what she sold to get her hair done and get into the club, and whether the family should be chipping in for that, too.
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  • My favorite part is that she thinks she's suffering in silence.

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    My favorite part is that she thinks she's suffering in silence.

    Yes 

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    You should submit her to STFU parents. 

    YES!  

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  • And condoms are so cheap! I would want to be snarky and maybe mail her a nicely wrapped costco-sized box of condoms. Maybe a plan B or too, just in case.
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