Starting Over
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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things that you dont care about
Height: I dont care if a guy is supershort to supertall
Food: I dont care if he is superpicky, allergic, or a vegetarian (so long as he isnt preachy).
f.k.a.= Derniermot
Re: things that you dont care about
I use to let height bother me but now it doesn't. I am the same way about weight but up to a point. I am physically active and like to play with my son and would want someone who can join us physically too. It is a lifestyle preference over looks in this regard.
Hair or eye color.
Kids
Car (unless it's a galopy--bonus points for a sexy pickup or German engineered car)
Hair/eye color
Height
Body type (to a point)
Taste in music
height
weight
if they rent or own
how physically active they are
Race or ethnicity
Children (within reason)
Religion (for the most part)
Race/ethniciy
Religion
Height/weight (within reason)
Political affiliations
I dont care if a guy wears a phone clipped to his belt.
I'd have to agree with food not being a high priority on the list of things as long as he's not all over the place. I'm all for trying new things but I'd rather eat american food most nights.
I use to want to date another service member because of how much I loved being an army wife but now that my priorities have changed with getting a house an all, I really don't care so much.
Hypocrite that I am, I use to care about body types. I even posted last summer about being matched with overweight men and how turned off I was. With J, I'm starting to cave in this dept. He's not skinny by any means but not obese either.
I forgot about race/ethnicity. Derp.
Whether he wears glasses or not.
Other random body things like moles or crooked teeth.
I don't care if he's a nice dresser. I rarely look at a man's shoes.
I can deal with phones on belts, but a Bluetooth permanently affixed to the ear is a non-starter.
I think glasses are hot...with the exception of the BCG glasses Black Kitty's IJL date wore (BCG="army speak" for Birth Control Glasses. Glasses so unattractive you won't sleep with the person.)