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WWYD? (Date with D)

Notice: I fully acknowledge I'm probably being dumb. 

I posted on Saturday that D cancelled our date because of work, and "promise promise promised" to make it up to me.

Last night we chatted for about half an hour, but we didn't make any plans to get together. This evening he started up a chat again, and we've been talking for almost an hour, but he hasn't brought up trying to get together, and I'm kind of confused.

Am I being stupidly paranoid?  Should I ask him if he wants to get together? Should I wait for him to ask? Or should I assume that he's not interested in meeting up? If so, why does he keep initiating these chat sessions with me? 

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"You don't get to be all puke-face about your kid shooting your undead baby daddy when all you had to do was KEEP HIM IN THE FLUCKING HOUSE, LORI!" - doctorwho

Re: WWYD? (Date with D)

  • When you say "chat" what do you mean?  IM or on the phone or something else?
  • IM.

    We haven't talked on the phoen yet - only chatted and texted. 

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    "You don't get to be all puke-face about your kid shooting your undead baby daddy when all you had to do was KEEP HIM IN THE FLUCKING HOUSE, LORI!" - doctorwho
  • He sounds like a classic "time waster" to me.  My advice - don't waste your time IMing back and forth with him.  I would either wait to see if he asks you out or just say you're trying to figure out your schedule for this week and did he have a night in mind to get together. I would not "reserve" another weekend night for him until you've met him.  Suggest Wed or Thur and see what he says.  I would lean toward that to see if he's a flake or really interested.  Don't waste your time if he's just going to IM you endlessly.
  • Thanks, BK.

    Sent him a msg along those lines, and we're getting together this weekend. He's sending over restaurant suggestions right now. Smile 

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    "You don't get to be all puke-face about your kid shooting your undead baby daddy when all you had to do was KEEP HIM IN THE FLUCKING HOUSE, LORI!" - doctorwho
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