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Well, this is a first...

On online dating, at least.

Just today got an email on OKC from a photographer:

"At the risk of being too forward, I'm a XXXX-based photographer (and painter) always looking to work with new folks on various photo projects.  I think you are absolutely stunning.  Have you ever considered doing any modeling?  I  can already think of several wardrobe/shoot ideas that would fit your look well. 

I know this is completely out of the blue; quite a random question, but just wanted to throw the idea out there and see if you were interested. 

Please take a moment to check out some of my work, at XXXX and let me know what you think. 

Thanks so much for your time, and am looking forward to hearing your thoughts if you'd like to discuss this further.  

Cheers, 
--OKC Guy 

P.S. I assure this is not some sort of bizarre come-on.  I'm quite happily married, not looking for anything like that on here.  You photos just caught my eye as someone with whom I'd love to work (plus, after reading your profile think we'd get along famously)."

Um....meet up with random stranger so he can photograph me? Probably not so much. Thanks, though... 

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Re: Well, this is a first...

  • Uhm, creepy.  And he's happily married????  I'd bet that his wife has no idea that he has a profile on a dating site to find models.  And, furthermore, if he's looking for models, why in the world would he look on a dating site????  All around way to weird for me.  I wonder though how many chicks have actually gotten back to him? 
  • :::BUZZER:::

    NEXT! 

     

    What a weirdo!

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    They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.
  • weirdo.

    i'm so sure that a happily married man is looking for models on a dating website! 

    creeper. NEXT! 

  • Tell him to go to Model Mayhem like all the other pervy hacks and leave OKCupiders alone!  Yeesh, what a creep.

    So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past.

  • And in case you thought it was legit, he throws in how well the two of you would get along. 
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  • Wasn't there a serial killer that said something like that??
  • imageDorisWE:
    Wasn't there a serial killer that said something like that??

    "I'd like to photograph your skin...with me wearing it." 

    Creeeeeeeeeeeep!  No legit photographer finds "models" on a dating site.  I want to see these "outfits" Mr. Happily Married had in mind for you.

  • imagearborgold:

    (plus, after reading your profile think we'd get along famously)."

    But no, really.... he's NOT looking to date.  That's why it's important that you all would get along famously.  He's married, and faithful!!!  He's totally above board!
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